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Advice needed badly

I'm 16, 14 weeks 5 days. The father to my baby left.I recently learned of his girlfriend via Facebook when she reached out to me. We talked and I was fine with her she was very nice and understanding about me talking to the father about baby stuff. He messaged me the next day with pictures and stuff of him with a baby. I was very confused. He then told me he wanted nothing to do with our kid that he would been moving to Florida in the fall with his new family (his girlfriend and baby) and would see me in court for a DNA test.... What do I do?! Up until now the baby was going to have his last name..
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You are 16? He can go to jail...
keep your head up and don't ever talk to him just get the child support n move on. Good luck
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Forget about him he is not that important. You have your baby to think about and that is important. Take his lazy no good a.s.s to court and make sure he pays for leaving you with his baby while he plays daddy to someone else's baby. After that act like he does not exists. How long you think that girl will put up with him having to give all his money to you for his baby, not long.
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Let him do watt he wants put child support and move on. Look hun if u date him again hes only going to hurt u more just forget him if hes choosing another female while ur pregnant with his child **** that hes no good
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Im 23 the father of my 2 year old daughter and soon to be son is 22. he has chosen to mess wl other females wl kids yet barely do anything for his kids we were together 3 years I promise it will hurt, but we cant let these people define us nor how our kids will grow up it will only make you lose focus and lose yourself worrying about him every step of the way. Focus on you as much as you can and set goals for when your baby arrives. Dont lose hope better will come
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Sweetie don't worry yourself over it. If he wants to play daddy to another child let him. Just see him in court! If you give the baby your last name it doesn't change anything. Stay focused on you and your baby. Good luck :)
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I'm out of school early because of homeschooling starting nursing classes in spring... but he's going to be 20 in April and were together for a year and 9 months before we broke up. I guess I'm just sad to see that he's playing daddy for someone he's been with less then a week and won't step up for his kid.
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Never depend on the responsibilities of anotherperson no matter what babygirl and dont make it stress you its your child so give it your last name . Like he said he will see you in court thats fine if he wants to be a "little boy" let him. At the end of the day focus on you, stay in school and never let anyone bring you down
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