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Okay, so I am really stressed out. I'm not quite sure who the father of my child is. During the summer, my boyfriend and I of two years broke up. He got a new girlfriend and I found out they were sleeping together. (we took each other's virginities so I was very hurt) I met this guy who I didn't like at all but he liked me a lot so it took my mind off of my ex boyfriend. He was real big into drugs and that's just not me at all. One night he asked me if I wanted to smoke pot, I gave in and tried it. Since it was my first time, I was really out of it. I was actually scared. We ended up having sex (without condom on July 28) after realizing it was wrong I told him to stop. Seven days later, I arrived at the beach and I got my period, or so I thought. After I came home from the beach I drank alcohol and it made me kind of sick. A few days after I got home, my ex and I slept together multiple times. Every time we do he goes inside of me. We have been together since then. We suspected I was pregnant a little after a month after this and it was positive. When I went to the doctor they told me my expected due date was may 11, 2014 based on my lmp. My lmp is very irregular, I rarely get it and when I do it lasts only 3-4 days. Is there a better chance of the random hookup being the father or my boyfriend? If I did the calculations right, if it was from the hookup I conceived on the day we had sex and my due date is August 22. The only chance of it being his is if it was implantation bleeding and not my period. When I had my ultrasound they said I was measuring perfectly with my due date of may 11. My second ultrasound they pushed it to may 13. If that is my actual due date my conception date is the 18 of aug and we had sex all that week. I'm just really afraid because when I drank after the hookup I got sick and I bled seven days after we had sex and that's how long sperm lives. I've read that it's not likely they would be off by three weeks but it's a possibility. We bought a DNA test and I'm so afraid for the results, someone please help
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Thank you!
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Sounds like its your ex. The period after not even finishing sex with a condom is one reason why. Another is, alcohol at the beach is great for dehydration and causing vomiting. Good luck with the results, hope things work out for the best
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