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Advice on paternity

This is really embarrassing but I need a little help with paternity. I had sex with a guy (Man A) on Dec 12 & then got back with my boyfriend (Man B) and been with him ever since. I had a period Dec 24 but spotted RIGHT BEFORE but did seem to have a normal cycle. Found out I was pregnant on jan 25 & went to the doctor feb 5 and saw only a gestational sack, no heartbeat & no baby but the sack measured about 7 weeks but the doctor said I seemed to be about 5-6 weeks. Went back feb 20 and measured 7 weeks & 3 days & had a heartbeat. Last ultrasound was March 13 and I measured 11 weeks & 3 days. My first estimated due date was oct 6 but they now changed it to sept 29. I know this isn't the place to go for this but I'm just seeing if I could have conceived with man A then I'll be forced to tell my boyfriend (He knows I cheated but doesn't know about the doubts) he's also already told his family so I'm really hoping it's my boyfriends & I don't believe a paternity test will be necessary due to the dates being spread apart. I am going to talk to my doctor next visit but haven't been able to because my boyfriend comes back with me but I will get my doc alone and make sure. Could I have conceived Dec 12 with Man A? Thanks!!
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I usually have a pretty normal cycle. Lasts about 5-6 days every 28 days or so
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The length of your cycle also needs to b taken into account. My cycle is ever 33 day dr use an estimator with 28days
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Thanks. Makes me feel a lot better and still going to talk to my doc to get another opinion
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12769268 tn?1439182079
Google "conception calculator" and enter your due date and it should say when you likely conceived. Based on the due date you gave above I checked for you and it says you most likely conceived between January 2nd-January 10th. Hope this helped!
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Talk to your doctor! Just for fun me and my boyfriend asked when she thought i conceived and she gave us a few dates it would've been!
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It is more likely you conceived with man b but definitely talk to doc for their ideas and honestly if man a isn't around does it have to matter just let man b be dad if he is ready and everything.
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