Soon to be Single Mom

[qsarac_]

I'm 19 years old, 16 weeks pregnant. I am pregnant by a man with 2 kids already & that I broke up with about a month ago not knowing I was pregnant. When I told him that I was pregnant he wanted me to get an abortion, sinceI ddidn't get one, he told me he's not going to be there. Should I reach out to the mothers of his other kids to try to allow our kids to know each other, or should I just leave it alone?

[qsarac_]

Thanks Mala. My dad had several children & several mothers & they all seemed to get along so I just hope that I can also. I'm not big with drama so if they don't want their child around mine I will not try. I'm only 4 months & I am going to see if he at least tries to reach out to the other mothers before I have to.

[MalachiKnC]

My dad was in his children but he passed when I was going on 6 my aunt told him I was his my mom didn't so when he found out I was his he was happy he would come to my grams house and wait til I got off the school bus to see me he paid for my cap and gown when I was little but was killed before he could see me in it but I wish you the best of luck raising your child and with the process of his bm

[MalachiKnC]

It depends on the type of person the mother of the kids is if shes not with drama I would try to so your child will know their siblings ive had siblings I didn't meet until I went and looked for them my mom didn't let me know or anything its good knowing your family