Always alone

[Dessypoobear]

My boyfriend has 2 days off a week and we almost never spend them together on Wednesdays he goes out all day and night with his friend and on Sundays he goes dirtbike riding from 9am to 9pm then comes home plays on his phone and goes to bed. I don't have many friends so I spend my days alone all the time and when I tried asking him to not go riding today he flipped out on me and left anyways :/ ugh I feel like I'm going to be completely alone when my son comes because my boyfriend already asks "so I can still ride once the babies born right?" And if I say no he tells me he will anyways. He plans on going just as much as he does now and not helping with the baby

[Baby_Aaliyah]

I'm worried to wether my babys father/my boyfriend will be there the minute he found out the bsby doesnt sleep ask night abd stays awake for a while he says he wants to wait to move in

[specialmom]

Oh gosh, sorry to hear this.  he does not sound like a good partner or team mate in this situation.  Has he always been like this . . .  life on his terms only?  Ugh.

Do you have family you can go to?  I would consider that.  He's not really there for you any way and having family support you would probably be better.

also, get out.  make some friends.  That will be easier when the baby arrives as moms kind of naturally look to each other for support.  There is something called MOPS which is 'mothers of preschoolers' and that includes babies.  It's a national organization and they hold 'meetings' at churches (but being religious is not necessary).  I joined and made one of my best friends through MOPS.  they have these once a month meetings where they provide child care and then you go to the hour long meeting.  Then they do lots of social things like all the moms will meet at a park with packed lunches and their babies/kids.  It was really nice for the social aspect and making friends.  

hang in there