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Am I being over the top?

Okay Ladies I Need your Honest Opinions. Plz No Judging. Since Becoming Pregnant I Have Absolutely NO Desire To Have Sex. However I Understand As A Man My Fiance Has Needs So I Give Him "Quickies" Just A Few Minutes To Climax But We Dnt Have Like Hours Of Sex Or Multiple Rounds And Sometimes We Have To Stop Before He Climaxes So That I Can Puke. Well Anyways He Watches Porn And I'm Absolutely Fine With That. Before I Got Prego I Wanted It All The Time And Watched Porn When I Couldn't Get Any So I'm Not Gonna Be A Hypocrite And Expect Any Different From Him. I Personally Dnt Feel Like It's Cheating Or Anything. However Here's Where My Issue Arises. It's Easier To Pick Up Our Home Wifi On My Cell Than His So He Uses My Phone All The Time. Well Today I OpenThe Browser On My Phone And One Of The Tabs Is On This SIte Where U Meet Up With Ppl In Ur Area For Sex. So I Flipped Out And Asked Wtf Is This? He Was Like That's To Keep From Bothering U So I'm Like No This Isn't Porn This Is A Hookup Site. He Said It Was A Pop Up From A Porn Site He Was On And Demanded That I Apologize For Accusing Him Of Having Intentions Of Cheating. Well I Refused Stating That For One It's Completely Disrespectful For Him To View Porn On My Phone And Two Had He Never Gone To That Type of Site Wouldn't Have Come Across The Pop Up In First Place. He Says My Screen On My Phone Is Larger And It Wasn't Disrespectful. So I Left And Went To My Mom's And Have No Intention Of Speaking To Him Until He Admits He Was Disrespectful And Apologizes. Am I Wrong? Am I Making A Mountain Out Of A Mole Hill? Sorry For The Long Post.
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Thank You So Much For Your Responses Ladies!!!
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U did say u both watched it & ur phone was easier to access internet. & u weren't a hyprocrite lol I watch porn also & those sites & ads do pop up without having to directly go to them.  So, he could be telling the truth about that. Are you wrong  for being angry? Hell no. But, you guys do need to talk & lay down some porn rules. As a woman,  its only natural to feel a type of way about your m an watching porn. I had a similar issue with myb hubby when we got together,  & that quickly got dealt with lol if he really wanted to cheat on you,  hewouldn't need the site to do it, trust me. But talk it out & express both of your feelings.
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I'd feel the same way, BUT, those ads do pop up with porn sites all the time:/
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Thank You Ladies For Your Comments. @ Charllll I Watch Porn Myself And Not For Any Of The Reasons You Stated Simply Because I Enjoy Sex Having Watching Etc. So I Would Find It Hypocritical To Just Assume That His Reasons Or Anyone Else's Reasons Are For The One's You've Stated. I Trust Him That's Why He's My Fiance. However I'm Not Gonna Allow Him To Make Light Of Something I Find Blatantly Disrespectful. Lots Of Men Watch Porn. I Can Handle That Just Not On My Phone. Thank You For Your Response.
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First of all my boyfriend never even looks at another women wanks or watches porn if he does this he obviously finds other girls more attractive then you and would rather sit there watching them than you which I think is wrong and if I were you id leave him he obviously has no respect for you, your body or your needs
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Unfortunately I been in the same boat about sex...After I got pregnant my sex drive disappeared! The bad thing is instead of a website he was sexting  a girl from back home to jack off to plus porn....i flipped ! But if he was on the site it probably for attention or curiosity ... I think you should talk to him but let him know what the deal is. ..
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It is pretty disrespectful to watch porn on your phone but things like that pop up all the time when you go onto a porn site so I wouldn't worry too much about that
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Nope my husband did somewhat the same thing. Very irritating
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