Am I in the wrong?

[Franky91]

These pregnancy hormones make me a bit emotional, I never saw my bf on friday because he decided to hang out with his friends so I told him I wanted him all to myself on sunday.

I texted him this morning saying morning lazy, he never texted me back for two hours and finally said he was in edinburgh at a car boot sale with one of his friends. I then got pissed off because he told me he wanted to have a long lye in before gettin me and he was in edinburgh that early in the morning, I have been pissed off all day. He then asked me 3 hours later if I wanted to come to his, cuddle in bed and he would give me a full body massage. Two words for u **** off! Tryin to sweeten me up after ditchin me for his pal

He has been ditchin me for the past two weeks for his friends and hasnt made an effort to see me and his baby can be felt on the outside of my tummy now, u think he would be in a rush to see me and feel baby girl kick for him for the first time

[Franky91]

Thanks hayang good advice :) im defo goin to make sure am more vocal with him because I dont need him at all if hes gona make me feel like he doesnt love me

[hayang]

my mom always said that some men feel like they've "trapped" you once you're pregnant nd they think they can treat you however they want because while you're pregnant you can't go get with another guy. you need to make it very clear that he can't just sweep you under the rug nd call it good. if he isn't making you two a priority then he doesn't need to be a priority in your life either. its a two way street

[Franky91]

Lol well my bday is the 23rd of may so knowin my luck baby girl might decide just to make her enterance into the world then, hope she comes when shes meant to or at least the day after ma bday dini fancy hospital on ma bday

[neeeeksx]

my 21st is two weeks after my due date a have a feeling my baby will decide to pop out then lol

[Franky91]

Cool I wonder if we will be in the same birthing group or anything in larbert hospital cause our dates arent that far apart and appartently with your first baby u usually go past the due date lol

[neeeeksx]

23rd june and yeah they think we will just take it cause we are pregnant not a chance :)

[Franky91]

Yeah av seen a couple lassies on this from glasgow and that but no the same area lol, am due 22nd of may what about u? And quite right we need to make sure our guys know we arent prepared to be messed about like this

[neeeeksx]

your exactly right I ended up texting my boyfriend telling him where to go cause am not getting walked over no more :) it is a small world closest to the uk I get on this is England lol but finally someone near me when you due?

[Franky91]

I think all guys are the same, I decided not to see him tonight as I dont really believe that he wants to see me if he wanted to see me he would b at my door right now ay, and its a small world am from falkirk too haha

[neeeeksx]

not saying your boyfriend has cheated sorry meant to add that was typing too quick

[neeeeksx]

sounds a bit like my boyfriend he said we would go to the pictures on Saturday and stay at mines after it, on Friday he ignored me for his friends then decided to argue with me Friday night and then I tried to text him yesterday he ignored me and I still haven't heard from him today I am ready to dump him because he already ignored me for 3 weeks a few months back and has cheated on me whilst pregnant but I gave him another chance but he doesnt seem to care about me or this baby even though he says he does! where abouts are you from as you said he went to Edinburgh early this morning? I'm in Falkirk x

[Alejandrina14]

And no you're not wrong.

[Alejandrina14]

sounds like he's scared and the more time he's out the less time he actually has to face his responsibilities. You need to sit him down and have a long talk with him about what he wants and why he's has been avoiding you. goodluck girly.