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5677659 tn?1379817567

Anti???

I haven't been up to talking to I guess who don't understand my situation am I being anti??? Ppl say they've been trying to get in touch with me and I come up with an excuse like I didn't know even though I knew all along anyway am I wrong for being "anti" is anyone else like this???
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4983320 tn?1378402268
I was that way for a while, didn't want to be around anyone but close family. Like being around people would give me anxiety. but I'm lucky when I found out I was pregnant two of my best friends from high school were also pregnant and we hadn't hung out in forever so   we got together for dinner and talked about pregnancy and babies the whole time. It's nice to have friends like that. They've already had their babies, just waiting on me now! I'm 22 & 32+4 with a boy. :)
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5677659 tn?1379817567
Lol wow
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5609044 tn?1383514943
Better then mine lol all he does is sleep all day and when he is up he wants to crack jokes that ARE NOT FUNNY.  
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5677659 tn?1379817567
@arnitia he's more moody than I am and I'm the one that's knocked up he eats more just ugh lol
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5609044 tn?1383514943
Sad to say if I didn't get pregnant I'd probably be the same. But im glad this has happened to me .its amazing to think about our babies depending on us completely to give them what they need. :) I wouldn't have it any other way.  
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4715985 tn?1371582997
So its normal that i dont want to be anywhere near my friends? I thought i was being horrible because i got tired of listening about who they slept with and how many guys they can get in one week.....i tried hanging out with them and all i want is to talk about babies and kids.....and i could see thst annoyed them. Bt all they talked about is drinking and party. Im 22, been with my hunby for five yrs now, been living on my own since 17 when my friends are like stuck in time. They live with their parents still! I love my parents but we are much better off living seperately. Im just glad, i thought i was being rude to them and i didnt even care. But in a way they are rude too, asking me to go out all the time. Its like they cant respect the fact that my world now revolves around this tiny human who needs me. And i need him :)
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5609044 tn?1383514943
Yeah im so happy. I want a Baby boy also but as long as baby is healthy im perfectly fine with whatever I get. &&that's why I love this forum we can all relate to each other .people try to answer my questions and I try to help others so it's a good thing. & @VAL lol I know what you mean sometimes our bfs don't know what we go through.  
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5283748 tn?1383877889
Omg! The night before i found out i couldnt sleep i was sooo excited! I can only imagine how you feel. What do you want? I got exactly what i wanted, i was very lucky. And me too :p feels good to talk about it bc no one my age knows what were going through
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5677659 tn?1379817567
I'm 19 24wks and 2days and I talk to my bf but sometimes his mood swings **** me off so its just me and my baby lol
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5609044 tn?1383514943
I find out tomorrow what im having super excited.  I find my self so happy talking about my pregnancy.  
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5283748 tn?1383877889
24+3 so not too far off from you. What are you having? Im having a boy :))
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4898758 tn?1373910879
Been The Same Way! I Like It Where It's Just Me My Boyfriend And Parents. No Drama Or Stress.
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5609044 tn?1383514943
21+3 wbu?
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5283748 tn?1383877889
Exactly! Im 18. How far along are you?
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5609044 tn?1383514943
How old are you guys. Im 19 .
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5609044 tn?1383514943
And you shouldn't care. You have another little life to think about. All the other crap doesn't matter. The only people I talk to is close family and my bf and im completely fine with that.
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5283748 tn?1383877889
Like i could care less about how drunk you got at blah blah's PARENTS house when i have a full-time job and my very own place.. Haha please save the details...    
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5609044 tn?1383514943
Yup :) im glad I've changed though it makes me feel good. And I can't wait till my little one is here.
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5677659 tn?1379817567
Okay b/c I've always been called mean and anti but now I think it's gotten worse and idc really
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5283748 tn?1383877889
Thats exactly how it is for me. Im only 18 so of course my friends are always out. When i look at them, theyre just so stupid and immature it drives me crazy. All they want to talk about it drama and drinking and stuff that doesnt matter while i want to talk about baby stuff :p we just arent on the same page and im ok w.that. i love the thought of being a mommy instead :)
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5609044 tn?1383514943
No I've been the same way. Like I don't even talk to most of my friends anymore because I feel like im growing up so much more then they are.they're use to partying and drinking and staying out all night. And I cant do that any more cause I want what's absolute best for my child so I don't even bother.  
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5609044 tn?1383514943
No I've been the same way. Like I don't even talk to most of my friends anymore because I feel like im growing up so much more then they are.they're use to partying and drinking and staying out all night. And I cant do that any more cause I want what's absolute best for my child so I don't even bother.  
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5283748 tn?1383877889
Me! i have no desire to talk or see anyone. I havent talked to my friends in the longest time and i like it that way for some reason. Its really weird. Im just content sitting at home by myself/with only my boyfriend.
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