Venting... :'(

[melissa_182]

As my due daye gets closer it kills me that my mom hasn't been there for me. I  have so many questions & doubts I wish I could just ask her but she walked out on me when I told her I was pregnant & ever since she's just constantly blowing up my phone reminding me of the horrible person I am for getting pregnant. I'm pretty much alone in my pregnancy because all I have is my husband to support me. I wish we could have shared this bonding time with her guiding me through my pregnancy. I was there for her with both of her pregnancies when she had my two younger brothers (I'm the oldest). She always made me go with her to her appointments, & just anywhere she would go I would be there for her & help her out. I loved that we were able to have that bond during her pregnancies & just wish she would have been there for me like I was with her... I had to grow up fast & learned to changed diapers & take care of babies at the age of 7 when my first brother was born. We're all 7 yrs apart & I took care of both my brothers like if they were my sons.

[tesil]

Parents intend to be strong and act disappointed but truth is their just hurt and lonely hope everything changes with ur mom good luck  

[ariflowers]

I'm in the kind of in the same situation she tells me here & there just to walk but not very much interested & we live together. .. & I took care of my brothers & sister &still do I ask wake them all for school etc. Sometimes they don't appreciate it ... but ur not alone u have ur baby on the way & ur husband (: hopefully when ur baby is here ur mom stops telling u bad stuff... have faith just focus right now on ur little family & keep ur head up (:

[MahMahBeaR]

im sorry to hear this n i hope she changes when baby is born shes missing out on alot of special moments some parents just dont want to admit.they r wrong n that we all have to grow up n we all make mistakes :( ur going to be a wonderful mother n god has givin u such a blessing i hope everything changes n she realizes shes wrong n hope u n her can be close again goodluvk hun n godbless u n ur family :)<3

[yesenia5]

I feel the same way I was 7 also and helped raise 2 of my siblings then moved to Denver once I moved she had another little brother I miss them more than I can explain i even threw her a baby shower last year for him I make an effort to visit at least 4times a years since I left I always try to keep contact cuz we were so close it hurts that she can't b the same for me makes me cry even writing this your not alone tho and instead of hoping they'll come around for us the way we were it's more of a motivation to be a great mom to my daughter best of luck with your mom:)