Baby Daddy Problems

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

My baby daddy want our son to be a Jr or have his last namw but he haven't give nun to me like no money or no Pampers. For our child, I'm 32 weeks. I due next month. Do you think I'm wrong from not naming the baby a Jr nor his last name

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

Then on top of everything, he don't even think the baby is his cause of his mommy think it ain't.

[ftpregnancy89]

I'm giving my baby my last name my baby daddy hasn't done **** for me or help me with anything.... He wanted him to be a Jr too but he hasn't even told family about me. So I say don't feel bad...cause I'm sure not sad about it.

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

I tell him all the time, he have to earn it but he still don't get to his head. Just because our son his sperm he want it to be his way.

[Staceyyyyy91314]

I agree with @Shann1995 its a privilege, not a right. Earned not given. If you're baby's father isn't contributing and is just smoking weed -pardon my language- f*ck that lol

[delilahhhxo_]

He doesn't have to bend his back for you but for his child he should! With no ifs ands or butts, & since your carrying his child it should be his job to do his partm stand your ground girl. Tell him if he wants his son with his name he needs to act like his dad! You have until the day your son is born to think about it, have another name in mind as an alternative&  don't let a man who doesn't do **** for u stress u

[Shann1995]

The title "dad" has to be earned! It annoys me that men think that the baby should just have their last name no matter what..

[yay_bby2]

i made the choice of giving my son the last name of his dead-beat father & i so hate it & i think i made the wrong choice now. my son is 5 already & he hasn't been around for nothing.

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

He want everything his way. He not the same no more, he didn't give our baby nun. We both don't got a job, butt my parents give me money and I go buy Pampers with it. He don't do nun, hearing hiss mouth about it see stress me out.

[delilahhhxo_]

I put my son his dad's last name, just because I felt that was his back ground even if we wernt together but it's a personal choice, Don't do anything you don't want to. Your the mom, you sign the name in the hospital- you make the decision. If he's not there for yall now don't feel obligated to do what he wants if he can't do what a daddy does he doesn't deserve getting the privilege.  That's my opinion though.

[ericatoday]

Its your baby. So its your choice. And even if you put him on child support you don't have to give the baby his last name.

[Dechae23]

I'm so glad I read this. I'm going through the same thing but I'm 19 weeks everyone says I'm wrong but he kicked me out his house and abused me

[alisonk170]

My son has my maiden name because his father was never gonna be around for him his father cracked the ***** but i say if he's good enough to have you'r name then he's good enough to spend time with

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

He go be on child support since he haven't give our baby nun. Plus he don't have a job, but he get money to smoke weed when he want to.

[Tas218]

No I don't think that's wrong.. Especially if you're not together with him and he's not contributing to the baby.

[KhaiyelMommy01]

Nope I Dont Think You Wrong.

[excitedlyexpecting1st]

No especially if he doesnt.do.anyt hi ng for baby

[layahsMommy15]

I dnt think so unless yu try to put him on child support and the its his right !