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[Makayla213]

I have a sister who is 14. All she does is cause problems for me. During this pregnancy she has kicked me in the stomach twice fought with me and talked s h i t about my son. I do NOT want her at the hospital at all while I'm in labor or after my son is born. I know my mom will start an argument with me when I say no, so how do I make sure she isn't allowed back in my room? When my friend had her baby, all you had to do was say can I go see _____ and they said yes. They didn't check id or anything.

[InsaneRoman]

My sister is 15 and would never do anything like that. Good god. What a little brat. Yeah, talk to the hospital when you register a few weeks ahead of time about how to limit people and when the time comes, if she's the only teen, request nobody but ADULTS. :)

[Fe411Fe]

Idk if this is at all hospitals but my doctor said the hospital will ask me if there is a list of people I do not want at the hospital when I have the baby and if they ask if I am there at the front desk they will ask their name and if they are on the list they tell them no I am not.  And I know when my sister had my niece she was at this hospital where you had to check in at the front desk for conformation of patient and that I am aloud to go. Then you go up an elevator to the OB wing and there is another lady at the desk there and they photocopy your license, take your picture and print you out a day pass. It was like jumping through hoops to go see my sister and niece. Lol

[Makayla213]

Thank you everybody! I will be bringing talking to my doctor about this at my next appointment.

[Liz_zoey]

Let your dr know that she isn't allowed back when you're there. Also let the nurses know when you go in. If you don't want her there then she can be escorted out if you ask. They're there to keep mom and baby happy. And if mom isn't happy it makes it hard on baby.

[Makayla213]

I tried. I called the cops on her and they told me since she is a minor there's nothing they can do about it. But that was expected because here where I live somebody was robbed at gunpoint and the cops didn't do anything.

[K_necole]

sister or not for one she would have been arrested at 14 for kicking me. secondly if she shows up call security to have her escorted out !! I'm sorry you're going through that mama, recently I got into it with my cousin and his gf & he pulled my hair & punched me while his mom (my aunt) held my arms ALL of them were arrested! I hope it gets better for you!!

[Mommy24721]

U can tell them who u want in there and who u don't u just have to say something ur friend prolly didn't have anyone they didn't want in there...my doctor told me if i don't want someone in there all i have to do is say i don't want them there