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over reacting maybe?

My fiances friends wanted him to come to a party or something tonight to tell him congratulate him yet nobody seems to care or even bother how I'm doing or feeling I feel like nobody wants to see me or anything else (which is not helping my depression at all) I told him do whatever I don't care but because they wanted him out til 12 am and we live with my parents he would be locked out because I'm usually asleep and so are they... he ended up not going because he would be stranded in a town 30 min away and with me I've been getting really dizzy really easy so he already told his friends no if I go she goes to just in case she falls don't want anything to happen to my daughter yet none of his friends really like me they say I've changed him no I haven't he decided to grow up and take responsibility which I'm glad but still does anyone else feel all alone of anything? I do and I don't have very many friends those I do/did have use me to babysit while they go to a bar I'm sick of it and none of them really talk to me ever since I got pregnant :/  

sorry for the rant
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1123420 tn?1350561158
I know how you feel. I don't have any friends either, If it wasn't for my bartending  job I would never talk to anyone other then my son who is almost 4 so he's not a good conservationist. Lol. My sister and my mom are the only ones I talk to. All my friends quit talking to me cause I can't drink. I'm 19+4 weeks with my daughter Kenna. The dad would spend every second with me and never goes out. But he annoys me lol we have to take breaks from each other lol. Don't worry about so called friends, your about to have a baby!! 200 times better then any friends!+ plus sounds like you got a good guy. :)
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Me too, ever since I got pregnant I feel alone. My family is also far from me, all of them including my friends are against our relationship. But everyone from his family adores me. He's still married but they separated already before we got together. My bf is also prioritizing us and he does not want to go out unless i join him. Because his friends are into drugs and they will coax him to join them if im not around. He doesnt want me to doubt him. I feel so lucky. You too. ;)
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6519447 tn?1391770769
Don't feel bad. I also don't have friends the ones I do trust and are real friends live about 2 hours away. Here where I live I communicate with people online on Facebook.  I get upset cause before getting pregnant we would go out and do things with friends but it always involved alcohol well obviously i cant drink like this and they still invite us but I dont go I figure why go I cant drink and I get sad that they dont ask to do other things like go out to eat a movie the park or things that involve me that I can do. My husband is real good he always puts us first I have let him go out for a drink 3 times my whole pregnancy im 28 weeks but I don't like it. He always invites me along but I dont feel right going all pregnant being around drunk people its not fun for me and I know our friends dont understand they think im a party pooper oh well. It ***** feeling alone not having a girlfriend to hang out with to do girly things I just watch alot of tv, movies, Facebook, I work, sleep alot, im on here alot
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Thanks... his friends are mostly immature and just worry about party's and what not when me and him 19 & 20 have a baby on the way
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6927110 tn?1393318669
Oh honey you need new friends! I've learned that with my pregnancy as well. And as for your fiancee, I'm glad to hear that He's putting you and your daughter first! If his so called friends can't understand that then they probably need to grow up or again, your fiancee needs new friends lol Hope things get better! Soon your little one will be here :-) take care momma
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