Being unfair

[Nina159]

I normal dont come here and talk about my problems but i just dont have any one els to tell to so i figured maybe u guys can give me advice  so my boyfriend wants sex but i dont want any i dont even want to be toughed down there and he gets mad at me he sais his not but he is im 19w3d and just dosent seem to understand wat im going through he just couses he now stops him self because iv told him not to say bad words but every time i offer him or asking something that be easyer for him he he comes up with the most hurtfull things like right now i asked if hewanted a ride he said no andi asked why he said Cuzzz i asked one more time he said no im walking because theirs some ***** down the street she waiting for me to **** her his always telling rhings like this its hurtfull i suck it up abd pretend like it dosent bother me but it dose normaly i dont cry but this time i did waited for him to leave just started crying im sorry if this is long :/

[Nina159]

Nop they dont they should i wander how they be if they could feel how we feel
   but i dont give him none its been like 3mounths sins i given into him

[lynn5x3]

i tell my boyfriend all the time I wish that he could feel what I go through for just 1 day! they have no clue

[Adjanaesmom]

Thats not the way you should be treated, he don't understand what women go through when they are pregnant. We just don't want sex and they think we are wrong. I think the last time I had sex was about a week ago but that is because I have been in so much painand he understands but even if I'm not in pain and I just don't feel like it he just tells me ok and he'll wait until I'm ready. But I suggest give him time he may come thru I think he just has not realized exactly what you are going through. :-)

[Nina159]

Thank you this helps :) and makes me feel better im not the only one that dosent like being toughed at all and i do tell him i say why do u asume im thinking their some chick ur going to go do he just dosent answer and gives me face dont you just wish they can vo through the changes just as we do be help full....

[TatiSevani_]

i thought i was the person who dont like their boyfriends touching them or dont like having with their boyfriends because you pregnant i dont no type of sex drive at all .

[brenconmom]

Oh Lord. Don't let him get to you and make you cry. Men are such friggin babies if they don't their way. I swear my husband has tantrums just like a 2yo. You aren't alone. I feel the same way. Im almost 27 weeks and the thought of sex just makes me ill. Its not you hun its just our lovely hormones acting up. Don't cry. Let him throw his tantrums and you just keep your chin up. You can do it. We are amazing and so are our bodies for creating and nurturing a life. Just keep thinking of your baby and know it will be over soon. Good luck.

[lynn5x3]

try telling him how hurt it makes you.. explain to him that its not your fault. your pregnant and you cant help that youve lost your sex drive. He needs to understand how much hes hurting you. and he needs to know that its not going to make you give it up just cuz hes being a ****

[lynn5x3]

my boyfriends the same way.. I have no sex drive at all since pregnant and he gets pissed at me. He says **** like if I dont give it to him hes gunna find it somewhere else.. you know what I say to that. BYE. if you cant understand that I dont want it then you dont deserve me. If they cant handle us at our worst then they dont deserve us at our best. Im almost 20 weeks now and hes gotten a lot better at understanding.. now he just says 6 weeks after i have this baby i better give him some lol

but still its annoying with the constant asking and getting mad because we dont want it. Sorry but im pregnant and I just dont want anything to do with it right now its upsetting and sickening and it makes us feel worst then we already do. they just dont get it its like all they care about is getting their dicks wet its sickening

Im sorry you have to deal with that BS but hopefully it will get better.