Best friend drama

[Hudder]

I need to vent.  My bff had turned into such a b×!## ever since I got pregnant.  She gets super jealous that I don't spend every waking moment with her amymore. I mean one: were both adults and two: I wanna start my life with my man and have a lil family. And she can't wrap her head around it for some reason. The messed up thing though is she has a nine month old baby herself! And wanted to do the exact same thing with her bf except he's psycho and that didn't work out. So idk what's up her butt but I can't take it anymore. I was there for her throughout her entire pregnancy and baby daddy drama but all she does is talk crap about me even though I didn't do anything wrong.
Like sorry I want my own life now. Ugh!!

[householder19]

That's how my sister acts about me and my hubby and us having a baby..  my sis was with a guy for 7 yrs and they had a nice house, nice cars but couldn't get pregnant.  A few yrs later they lost everything because he started doing hard core drugs and lost his job. My sis couldn't pay for everything on her own so they lost it all..  I think she's Soo jealous of me and my husband though. She even tryed to get my hubby jumped when him an I first got together..  now she's with my husbands older brother and says she's going to marry him when he gets out of prison! Lol.  Its so obvious that shes jealous of my relationship and my life it's just sad and pathetic.. she's always talking crap and making mean remarks about how I messed up my life by getting married and getting pregnant and that all I want to do now is spend all my time with my husband, and then she turns around and says well at least he's a good guy and will support you and your baby and he won't ever leave you because he's so stuck on you, you guys are so stuck on eachother...  I swear she acts bipolar sometimes!! Lol

[ohnoitzmeme]

^^I agree. She's jealous because you have what she wanted, hers didn't work out so maybe she's hoping yours doesn't either. Be done with her for awhile. Let her reassess herself. You don't need the drama or stress in your life.

[LadyBeeley]

Really does not sound like a friend at all if she cannit be happy for YOUR success, but thinks about herself instead. I had a "friend" for 8yrs. She was always trying to get married so fast. I got married before she did. She would bash me and him for it all the time and it ended in an explosive fight where she damaged my house. She has come back and tried to spark up a friendship since then, but when someone shows their true colors, I just felt better in general without her stressing me.

[Ajoyce10]

I'd Say Give Her A Break..... Take A Step Back And Let Her See How Much She Needs You.