Boyfriend being mean!

[Dessypoobear]

Hi ladies! Lately my boyfriend has been such a jerk :,( he yells at me daily and tells me I'm being annoying. When I ask him to please stop he continues to yell at me and treats me worse. I try not to cry because if I do he yells at me for "playing the victim" I don't know what to do I almost don't wanna talk at all because I fear being yelled at :/

[destinyluv01]

I just take out a big hammer or some crazy weapon and look at him all crazy lol j.k but seriously My significant other tried that intimidation technique. I had to start fighting back and I demand respect from him because forget that a man is a lot stronger physically then a woman for the most part. They're Are some exceptions though. Once he knows you won't tolerate that non sense it'll be better for you. Good luck

[sochinkytinyshania_11111]

I'm going through the same thing . I feel for you , I honestly don't know what to do

[July2baby]

My Fiance Does The Same I Think The Guys Just Get So Stressed And Scared

[Dessypoobear]

My ex was worse so sometimes I give my boyfriend excuses because he isn't as bad. I would never put my baby I'm danger and if I ever feel stressed I usually leave the room and he knows not to follow. He does apologize but i have told him being sorry doesn't excuse everything hopefully talking to him  will help

[ericatoday]

I had that problem with my man before I got pregnant. So I told him change or get to steppin. Heddidn't so I kicked him out. About a month went by and he completely fixed his stuff. Now were happy and pregnant and his devotes himself to me.

[Bentleysmommy18]

Your welcome!! Update if it helps!!:)

[rnmxo95]

You need to stop worrying about a man.  Worry about yourself & your child!!  Stress can cause harm to your baby  

[Dessypoobear]

^^^ good advice I'll try that! :) thank you

[Bentleysmommy18]

It's not about leaving it's about standing up for yourself! I've been through it with my husband and leaving only makes it worse! Talking it out and telling him what's on your mind will make a difference! Cook for him or do something sweet and explain to him over dinner you really want him to change because your scared, etc! He should understand

[Dessypoobear]

Sometimes I wonder if I should be with him :/  and I have tried getting away but we live together and my mom tells me to not run away from my problems and I have no friends or really any other family :/

[Bentleysmommy18]

Tell him to straighten up or carry his butt! Lol my husband will occasionally throw out a curse word or raise his voice at me and I tell him don't do that and he apologizes.

But before we were married and had babies he was like that a lot we were very abusive to eachother! Fist fighting, choking, trying to kill eachother just about lol but he needs to respect you as a pregnant lady not as his girlfriend or just a girl because your no longer just a girl or women right now! Tell him like it is and don't take that shiit from him! If you do it could get a lot worse!

[jtrasky]

Is there anywhere you can go for a few days. It's unacceptable to treat a pregnant woman like that. Bring him to the doctor and have then talk to him about the changes you're going through. I'd get away for a few days if you can. He needs to see that is unacceptable. Don't text him or call him. Tell him you need a more positive and less hostile environment for you and baby.

[j2113]

And you still want to be with him even if he treats you that way?