Breaking Point :'( ..

Question

I feel like im doing stuff on my own... like my hubby went to his parents to stay over ... but its constant he's almost never here anymore! And when he is here he does nothin! Like im the only one putting everything together for the baby im even the one who painted and put up everything in the babys nursery, and even worse im paying for everything, i get his being looking for a job and his just doing small jobs but he cant spare 20 bucks? But he can pay a 300$ game system right? And his always going out with his friends and on the street like damn... i feel alone im doing everything..:'( i cant take it! Andbworse his mom preotects him.. like come on...

Cookiex15 · Answer

Ill try... ill talk to him tomoroe lets see what happens

yourstruly21 · Answer

Yu became a mom when yu found out yu were pregnant ...it usually takes until the baby comes for it to turn a boy into a father

I hope things work out for yu hun...just hang in there

mummytwobee · Answer

Hes a boy most dont mature till babies around and some never grow up. Those are the ones you need to kick to the curb.

Cookiex15 · Answer

Bump

Cookiex15 · Answer

I hope so.. he says and ik he cares about me and the baby but yet its hard for him to mature.. i did why cant he.??

Cookiex15 · Answer

I hope so.. he says and ik he cares about me and the baby but yet its hard for him to mature.. i did why cant he.??

baby2_on_the_way · Answer

He will grow up when he takes one look at that baby hun

joannagonzalez · Answer

oh dam yeah hes young thats why hes acting like that but still he needs to man up and know that he has a wifey and a baby coming his way and if all he cares about is games cars andd friends il defenitly think about it. even though you love him guys can sometimes really take advantage since you let it be. gotta be a tough moma and let it be heard. you want your baby to be happy and well taken care off

Cookiex15 · Answer

Im 16 .. his 18 iknow were young but his all i have.. my family kicked me out.. so now him and my son are all i got...

momofalmostfive · Answer

That's uncalled for. Honestly I'd say change for good, our hit the road. Once the baby arrives you are going to be exhausted with sleepless nights,etc. He needs a reality check.

hayang · Answer

how old is he?

JewelzD · Answer

Men dont understand what we feel or what we have to go through to bring life into the world I hope he opens his eyes and sees what he is missing out on before its to late. If you dont mind me asking how old are you n him

Cookiex15 · Answer

Damn for mine? Is the stepping on hot rocks  or so it seems :(

JewelzD · Answer

i know u didnt mean money support i was just stating what to say to him all we really need is someone to be like you are going an amazing job thank you for giving our baby life like how hard is that to come out of a mans mouth

Cookiex15 · Answer

When i said money i was trying to state a point... and the most i need is his support to know everything is going to be ok... but lately the only thing i get is a how u and the baby doing? ... and thats it and by phone -.- i just wish i could do the baby stuff with him... but i love him doe.. but even if it breaks my heart.. if he dosent come back tonight.. its over :'(

JewelzD · Answer

I don't mean this in a mean way but tell him to hit the street since he dont want to help u with anything you only need his support not money after all he helped make your son

Cookiex15 · Answer

And im 35w ... he seems to care more bout cars,video games and his friends than his wife and son..

Cookiex15 · Answer

Ive talked to him thausands of times and he changrs for a couple days and then goes back to bein a lil kid, he just dosent seem to get it! And i cant take it anymore... im even doing household things and moving and carryin heavy objects because im the only one doing it!

MrsKeener · Answer

Sounds like he's a kid. He's just got a lot of growing up to do

joannagonzalez · Answer

have you tried talking to him???i would tell him that he needs to mature and start thinking abt the baby or else ill take the baby away from him. maybe thatll get him thinking and get scared.. but im sorry you going thru this some guys dont seem to get the freakinn point

mummytwobee · Answer

Sounds like he needs a reality check and to grow up, i left my baby dad cause he turned into a controlling psycho. And some guys just act like children still so sounds like you need to talk to him and tell him if he dont change you need someone who will.