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Breastfeeding in public?

Just wondering who feels self conscious about breastfeeding in public or in front of other people? I try to plan my outings around when I know she will need to nurse and I always cover up when I do but I still feel very self conscious about it. I was thinking maybe I should start pumping a few bottles just for when we do go out but I'm also hesitant to give her a bottle.
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Ya i breastfed anywhere and everywhere with a cover.  I was almost proud i was.  AND i never received any dirty looks.
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Ill be breast feeding at home and pumping for when we go out. Mostly cuz I want hubby to be able to help out and cuz hes a little uncomfortable with me doing it in public cuz of pervs which is understandable.
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Theres a lot of pervs out there is my problem.
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People can be jerks sometimes, don't be ashamed to breastfeed your baby out in public, how do you think they ate back in colonial times, I think its a beautiful thing and it shouldnt matter what other people think Good luck!
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No one has said anything to me about it when I have. I tend to be a self conscious person in general. The other day I took my baby to meet her dad's family. We met up at the restraunt of the hotel they were staying in. I started to feed my baby, covered up, and the sister started talking about how awkward and uncomfortable it is to bf in public and asked if I wanted to go up to her room to feed the baby in private. That made me feel even more self conscious and then I couldn't tell if she was feeling uncomfortable by it.
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Do people still say things about women breast feeding in public??
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Girl don't be self conscience about it is a natural and beautiful thing. I don't know if its just me but i do it everywhere Target, Macys, Walmart where ever i am. Breastfeeding is alot of feeding on demand so its hard to always schedule around feeding time i always cover up n have gottn real good to where u don't even know im doing it unless i tell ya. also my lil one hides his lil face like he knows wat to do too its cute. My sisters always joke n call me the bf pro. i also think u might feel uncomfortable because not many women do it anymore n so u feel kinda akward least i did at first. You can try giving a bottle but my LO won't take one from me so it wasn't an option. Also by law places are required to have an area for u to nurse least in Ohio thats the case. I hope it gets better for u good luck momma
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Some places have areas just for Moms to breastfeed. Babies R Us is one and some Toys R Us do too. My school has a room just for breast feeding Moms too. Im a little self conscious too about it, but I'll find someplace to do it if need be or pack some bottles.
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I brestfed my daughter! I didn't care were I was or who was around if she was hungery she got fed! If I was in a real busy place like walmart or some place like that I would cover up then get them puppies out and she would do the rest! If anyone got upset about it I told them it was a natural thing and if they didn't like it they could stop looking or just leave! I also would take her to the restroom if I didn't feel comfy feeding her! Like if someone was like really watching or was like moving around to try to see my breast!
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Bottles can interfere with breast feeding. I'm due ina few weeks and I'm already stressing about breast feeding in public. Sounds like you are discrete though. I don't think there's much you can do unless you are really worried and do use a bottle.
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I don't care what any one thinks. My baby is hungry I'm going to feed it. I care less about what they think & focus more on that I'm doing the best thing for my baby. They don't hide in the bathroom to eat & neither will I.
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I bought a cover and I also did a lot of research on bottles and found tommy tippee the best so if we have a big day planned I can pump and it won't jeopardize my breast feeding. Plus, my husband wants to feed her sometimes so I planned on pumping every now and then anyways.
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