GILLIAN---I HAVE SEEN PEOPLE COME AND GO JUST LIKE U...I HAVE NO CHILDREN...NEVER BEEN PRGNANT...AND MAYBE 9 OUT OF TEN OF MY FRIENDS HAVE CHILDREN AND IM THE ONE DAT DOESNT HAVE KIDS... IT DO HURT AT TIMES AND IF U CANT TAKE IT THEN I WOULD SUGGEST U LEAVING IF IT HURTS U THAT BAD....WE ALL HAVE BEEN THERE...I WISH U THE BEST IN ANY DECISION U MAKE.
HEATHER--IM RUNNING OUT OF PATIENCE...LOL...IM ALMOST TO A POINT TO WHERE IT DOES SUCK IF IM NOT PREGGO...AND OVULATION WOILD BE HARD...BUT WHO CAN COMPLAIN WHEN NOT HAVING AF...
I still don't know about the coffee thing...I didn't drink a lot of coffee when I got pregnant with DS, or at least I don't remember if I did...I did drink sodas more though.
I hav been wondering about the coffee thing. I have also read about caffeine affecting fertility and also linking caffeine and cyst growth. So maybe the cofee is causing my cysts.
I still havent had time to go in for my u/s yet. The brown spotting stopped at CD12.....now I am CD 15 and have no idea about when I will ovulate. I did have some back pains yesterday and today and a little bit of cramping so maybe I am or did ovulate at a normal time this month. DH and I have just been doin the BD when we want to not cause we feel we have to. I already felt this month was out because of the bleeding.
gillianl.......I am so sorry for you. I really hope you get a BFP soon. Maybe taking it easy and getting away from it all is just what you need.
SSBD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This site has a bit of info on baby aspirin: http://www.thebabycorner.com/page/1372/
I was taking it along with B50 complex...I was told by someone that many women that have a tough time TTC are deficient in vitamin B..mostly 12 but I figured I'd cover my bases with the B50 complex.
As far as what you should wear to city hall...just find a cute little white dress....ever see the Sex and the City movie?? Just wear a nice dress...not too formal or anything...just comfy and cute!
Gillian- I understand too if you take a break from everything...I know how secretly heartbreaking it is to see BFP's all over the place because all you want is one of your own. I agree though that you need to check in and let us know how you're doing!! I know too that you will some day be a mother...some women give up easy when it becomes difficult but you are a strong woman and a fighter! We are all here for you!!
Faith!! You have soo much patience!! LOL
Just looked at my tracker and remembered I put my O day as CD 17 to mark the LATEST day I could have ovulated, so I'm 4-6 DPO today. Well, 5-7 now as it's almost midnight...it's gonna be a long 17 days without DH here, I can never get to sleep early when he's not home, and Elijah's always up before 8, more recently it's been before 7, UGH! Do I really need to give up my morning coffee? Can't I wait until DH gets back???
I understand completely, I can't imagine what you're going through and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I really do hope you get your BFP soon. But until then, like you said take life one day at a time, enjoy yourself. I know you're wishing for the day when you can't get up and go when you want because you have a baby, but for now enjoy it. I'm more than positive you will be a mother one day, but for now just enjoy your time with your DF. Maybe instead of TTC just have fun together, and I don't mean just sex, take a vacation, go away for a weekend, try something new that you haven't done before.