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8071871 tn?1398900696

Cold feet? =/

So we were done having kids after our son who is now six. This bundle of joy is our very much welcomed surprise and I'm currently 36 weeks. Well, last night I started talking to hubby about birth control, tubal ligation, him getting snipped possibly etc. And he drops the bomb on me that he doesn't want me to do anything permanent because he wants not 1 but 2 MORE?!?!?! I don't even have this one out yet, I don't think I want anymore after this at the same time I was truly humbled and fell in love all over again with him. But now I'm just plain terrified =/ how can I let him know what I'm feeling without him feeling rejection or upset over this?
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8071871 tn?1398900696
Thanks ladies, yeah I guess you never know it could happen. I thought it was super cute like hey, he likes making babies with me and he loves our babies but gosh, let me get this one out first lol. We've been married 5 years and together for 9. He's my highschool sweetheart. I could've picked worse thats for sure lol, I've just got a man obsessed with making babies :P
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3744707 tn?1402187570
Aww his so proud to have a great baby mommy !! He's probably so happy and excited my hubby does the same. But of course you never know like they say never say never. I'm sure you'll take care of yourself and whenever you guys want to make babies it might happen, but I'm sure he would understand to give you some time girl. :) don't be terrified go with the flow and be happy guys congrats
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Just be completely honest with him. Im sure he will understand. But hey you never know, in a couple years you might actually really want another child.
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