first pregnancy

[Emmajane191]

Hi im 14 weeks and my first pregnancy and i cant stop thinking negative thoughts about my baby everytime i go toilet i check to see if im bleeding or owt i really dont want to lose my baby im so scared anyone else like this??xx

[Sammywa]

I'm 30 weeks and still check to see if I'm bleeding and I always Google stuff and probably worry for nothing. It just means you're more cautious and aware, which is good. Just don't stress too much and try to relax. Baby feels what you feel!

[AmKeel]

It gets easier the further along you get.

[Emmajane191]

I know im trying to think positive just hard but im getting there slowly x

[AmKeel]

Just try not to stress your self over it because you don't wanna stress the baby.

[Emmajane191]

Yeah same here im 14weeks and i cant help but worry think il be the same til i have my baby xx

[katie0203]

This is my third and I'm 16 weeks and I do the same thing

[AmKeel]

I was an still am the same way. I'm about to be 20 weeks yet iI always get negative thoughts. What if something wrong? Am I bleeding? Why am I cramping? What if my baby has a complication? So many more thoughts but my biggest fear is also losing my baby. I try to ignore the thoughts an do other things that get my mind off of it sometimes it helps. I figure I'll be like this Till the day I have him .

[Emmajane191]

Im sorry to hear that hun i havnt been told i just constantly worry :-( and congratulations x

[Jr23861]

I'm the same way... im 15 weeks on Friday. I was already told a possible miscarriage but proved the doc wrong so now.  I always worry..

[Emmajane191]

Glad im not the only one who does it but i cant help it as my bf stops me reading things about children in bad ways but when i click on fb there always there about women havin miscarriages thats what scares me the most i try not to look and scroll past but cant get the images out me head and thank you and congratulations aswel mama to be xx

[babymalaki]

I'm a FTM and I was like that for the first trimester. I'll be in the third trimester soon and still see if I'm bleeding, it's natural to worry but don't stress to much. Just take it easy and try to relax most days. I know it's easy said then done but a lot of women are the same.
Embrace your pregnancy and your baby, congratulations mamma :)