Conception

[LeviPierre]

Wowwww :/ My Doctors Say My Baby Was Conceived On December 1st & My Due Date Is August 23rd .. iCheated On My Boyfriend ONE Time November 24th (thanksgiving) & That Was That .. iHad Sex With My Boyfriend Multiple Times AFTER ThanksGiving & NEVER Again With The Other Guy .. Who's Baby Is It MORE Likely To Be ??

[Turnersmommy]

I can tell you the exact day my husband and I conceived and the doctors keep tellin us different.. They aren't always right and in our case are off by a couple weeks. We weren't having sex that often and I knew when I was ovulating and knew when my symptoms started showing up. They can guess, but arent always accurate. I believe you need a DNA test.

[rachyrou]

I am simply urging her to do the right thing. Simple.

[KTowne]

Like a few ladies have said, U/S dating is much less reliable in the 2nd trimester, regardless of what your doctor has said. A week is just too close of a call to say one way or the other, and just because you had sex with him one time, doesn't mean it's not his, in fact, the one time you had sex with him, verses the multiple unprotected sex you had with your boyfriend, and didn't get pregnant, is a little alarming, because it definitely MAY be his. You need to tell your boyfriend, whether it's his child or not, even if you didn't get pregnant and were worried about whether it was his or not, you should have told him as soon as you did it. He may stick around, he may not, but it's a choice you made, and you need to deal with the consequences as an adult.

[Motherhoodo12]

^^you are acting like the baby is here and she is not telling him he may not be the father!! Im sure she will tell him when she feels the time is right!its her choice and im sure she will do the right thing

[rachyrou]

Also if it is the other guy your bf will be paying for a child that's not his. You are having a baby you need to do the adult thing. Suck it up and tell the truth. No one deserves to be lied do about the paternity of a child. You'd be selfish to keep it secret because its easier for you. Please do the right thing

[SarahLouise22]

You really need to tell your boyfriend. Can you imagine how heartbroken he and his whole family will be if in a few years down the line this all comes out and DNA is done and it turns out not to be his. It will be a billion times worse than if you come clean now. You came on here and you asked the question but you don't like the answers you're getting so you're telling yourself not to 2nd guess and to go with your gut. That's ridiculous. There is a 50% chance this baby belongs to the other guy and if it is his not only does your bf have a right to know but so does the real father. And your baby has the right to grow up calling the real father daddy and not find out years down the line that the person they think is their real dad is not. If you are really set on not telling your bf then atleast get the womb dna test the others are talking about and ask the other guy for his DNA to compare. I don't think you should wait until the baby is born. Your bf will bond with the baby instantly and by then it'll be too late

[Aaron_N_SophiasMommy]

I think there was a post here a few weeks back where someone was in your situation and wanted to try the dna test that they do in the womb but many women said that its to risky and could affect the baby since they poke you in the stomach with a needle. Not too sure but thought id share that with you.

[Aaron_N_SophiasMommy]

Ultrasounds done later in pregnancy are not as accurate since a baby grows at diffrent rates some faster or slower than others. Where an early ultrasound done at around 6wks can be more accurate but still be off a couple or few days

[rachyrou]

it took a year and a half to get pregnant with my daughter (with my boyfriend), she's now 11 months old, we've only slept together six times and i'm pregnant again. I echo what Mamabear said, it takes one sperm, one egg, so yeah.xx

[Motherhoodo12]

Just enjoy your pregnancy:)

[MamaBear0612]

I'm 34 years old. I've had previous relationships where we weren't always the most careful and I've never gotten pregnant. I dated my baby's father and we never got pregnant. We broke up, got back together, and in the first week we managed to get pregnant. You could have knocked me over from the surprise, and there was no logic in why I got pregnant by this particular time at this time. I've been with guys for 5 years and never gotten pregnant. Life is unexpected sometimes, and like I said, all it takes is one sperm and one egg.

[rachyrou]

honestly with pregnancy, sleeping with  2 different men that close together the chances are literally 50/50. You will need a DNA test, and you will need to tell your boyfriend. Your mind isn't always right, it's certainly not accurate. The only way to tell is the DNA. It must be hard for you, but truth is best, he deserves the truth, if you love him then you need to tell the truth, if you can't tell your own boyfriend the truth then you probably shouldn't be having a baby together. You need honesty in a good relationship. Good luck xxx

[LeviPierre]

Ur comment made me smile kinda .. i reallyyyyyyyy just cant see how one day in between times me and my boyfriend had sex made such a huge mess .. after all the times ive never gotten pregnant , when i sleep with my ex i get pregnant .. smh i had sex with my boyfriend before i had sex with this other guy and after .. he just got in one day .. i know it may be a chance with the other guy but more of a chance with my boyfriend and like i said im second guessing myself and i shouldnt be doing that .. right ?? FOLLOWING UR FIRST MIND IS RIGHT .. RIGHT ?

[rachyrou]

I think if you hold on to this and go through it on your own you'll cause so much stress in your pregnancy. YOu should tell the truth, get it off your mind. stress isn't good for mum or baby. I wish you the best and hope the baby is your boyfriends but you really should tell him, he really should know, it is possibly his child!

[LeviPierre]

Okay This What EXACTly What iHave From MY Doctors .. Pleaseee HElP :(
Ovulation - Dec , 1st ..
IMPLANTATION - Dec , 10th ..
Expected Period - Dec , 15
Fetal Beat Found - Jan 1st ..
Due - August 23rd - Sep 1st ..
Does ThaT Change ANYTHINGGG :(

[Motherhoodo12]

I got that off a conception site for u ^^

[Motherhoodo12]

According to my calculations, given the baby is due on Thursday, August 23rd, 2012, this would put the conception date on or around Wednesday, November 30th, 2011.

Furthermore, considering you can get pregnant 5-6 days prior to conception/ovulation, this would mean you (or the mother of the baby if checking someone elses concption date) likely had sexual intercourse sometime between Thursday, November 24th, 2011 and Wednesday, November 30th, 2011.

[MamaBear0612]

You also didn't get an ultrasound until the second trimester, so it's more likely to be inaccurate...read the American Pregnancy Association's explanation of late and early ultrasounds. It sounds like he's basing your due date on that ultrasound, but even if he based it on your LMP, it could be off enough so you just can't tell.

[mandamouse21]

Like everyone else has said it could be either, you should tell him. It would be better if you told him them him finding out threw someone else, and if your afraid of loosing him why did you sleep with the other man? But try not to stress its nott good for the baby. Hope you have a happy and stressfree pregnancy.

[rachyrou]

No, please honestly I'm pregnant with my second and it's just common knowledge that only DNA is accurate! so you WILL have to tell your boyfriend because you need his DNA. And i'm sorry but you have to tell him, it is so unfair you could have this child, that he thinks is his and it's not. If you tell him the truth NOW you could save the relationship. If he ever finds out you lied and covered it up he WILL leave you. That baby might be his, it might not. Either way he has the RIGHT to know that it might not be his child. Do the right thing and tell the truth. No one wants to own up to cheating but you're a mother now, you need to do the adult thing. You'd wanna know if he cheated on you right? and if you were a guy , and it was the otherwy around, could you imagine your gf had a baby, you assumed was yours, but that baby isn't at all related to you? please tell the truth..

[Motherhoodo12]

Give or take a few days from your conception date..round that time frame

[MamaBear0612]

Not sure about the procedure done in the womb, but when the baby's here you can get one for a couple hundred bucks I think. I really do hope things come back the way you want them to. Do you think if it is this other guy's baby, or if he finds out one day about this other guy and the possibility, that he would stay with you? I'd probably have a hard time carrying that secret; sometimes honesty is hard but at least you know where you stand.

[LeviPierre]

If iGo Back 16w & 5Days It Lands Me On Dec . 1st .. EVERyTHiNG Does !! Its So Many Different Answers Coming From EVERY Way Im Soooi Confused ..

[LeviPierre]

Those Things Are Expensive Arent They ??