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sex still??

Anyone having a problem having sex? Well I dont have a problem just dont feel like it I'm 34 weeks and my husband's trys every night and I say no he's getting frustrated. I don't feel in the mood at all no more
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Mines hasn't went there yet... I'm 22wks now and I want sex all the time my boyfriend and I had sex 4xs back to back within 6hrs lol ... try setting the mood sometimes or have him it... works for me :)
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im the oppersite i want it more my first pregnancy my husband was so nervous he would hurt the baby which left me frustrated abit at times but then id reasure him sex dont harm baby n we would make love but only in poistions he felt comfy lol this time hes more relaxed but still will only do certain positions bless him :0
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3051094 tn?1342032647
I haven't had any problend with pain or discomfort during or after. You should talk to your doctor if your experiencing any
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I'm 24 weeks and have started to want to engage in sex with my fiance. Does anyone find it painful during or after intercourse? Sometimes it causes me to cramp during the night after having sex. Is this normal?
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3051094 tn?1342032647
That's where the cuddling comes in Cuz the love making is mommys time the cuddling is time for him to spend with the new baby. And of course our 7 month old gets everything else. I guess maybe he's just happy that he doesn't or hasn't been denied sex so he doesn't let himself worry especially after the doctor told him it was perfectly safe during our first pregnancy. I think he feels I might get offended bout my changing body if he denied me sex so even if he wasn't in the mood I would still get it lmao
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I'm so glad I'm not the only one lol and yes my nd ever denied me sex if kill him lol
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1988837 tn?1328794013
hah.  I'm 38 weeks and neither one of us want it at this point. hes freaked out because I'm so big and shes moving CONSTANTLY .. he thinks hes going to hurt her. and I just don't want it I'm so uncomfortable!! I can't wait until we have a normal sex life again.
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Hahaha I would say that but ive denied him too so I can't get too mad and he's only denied me the one time when she kicked him too lol but we both laughed it off cuz his reaction was hilarious lol :-D other then that we usually agree... maybe tomorrow will be better.. lol I can't wait to go back to normal after baby comes I miss the daily "corporate meetings" hahaha
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3051094 tn?1342032647
I think if my boyfriend denied me sex it would be world war III. I feel lucky that pregnancy hasn't affected this part of the relationship for either of us. But I honestly could live without the cuddling afterwards. Sometimes it's just hot and it makes me feel claustrophobic. But I dont wanna hurt his feelings
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I had that problem in my first trimester cuz I felt so sick but ever since I hit 18 weeks all I can think about is sex somedays other days it takes some convincing but we just take it slow we make out for a while and that'll help then we start slow with the foreplay and usually I get right into the mood I'm 30 weeks now and he's the one having a hard time cuz he says its different with a big belly poking him lol plus one time we were trying to get in the mood she started kicking and he felt it too so that really freaked him out hahaha
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I wish my husband tried every night. I ask and get denied because he is too tired.
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3051094 tn?1342032647
I've been fortunate that my sex drive hasn't changed. I had sex almost everyday up to my induction with my first pregnancy and it hasn't changed with this one either. Half the time I'm making advances to my boyfriend. Of course positions have to be modified when I get bigger but the intimacy is still there. And it's not like we're a very new couple. We been together for 4 n a half years now.
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My boyfriend expects sex almost daily. Which used to be okay before we got pregnant. However now I have just been uncomfortable and hardly in the mood. I feel like there are more important things I need to worry about right now. I tried explainng to him that he is lucky I have wanted/been able to have sex this far into our pregnancy (I'm 32 weeks). But he just doesn't see it from my view
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i am the same way...i am 20 weeks 1 day and i am never in the mood....he as well says that i am not attracted to him and that could not be farther from the truth!
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My boyfriend expects sex almost daily. Which used to be okay before we got pregnant. However now I have just been uncomfortable and hardly in the mood. I feel like there are more important things I need to worry about right now. I tried explainng to him that he is lucky I have wanted/been able to have sex this far into our pregnancy (I'm 32 weeks). But he just doesn't see it from my view
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2170635 tn?1357911686
Im 18w6d and i never wanna do it im just dont like it/want it right now and he gets really mad frustrated tells me im not attracted to him no more i feel bad but, i just dont want to so he has a long wait!!!!!!
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2129801 tn?1337700493
Me either! Sometimes if we don't.do it for like a week or.something I might get in the mood but usually I don't ever wanna do it.  It just doesn't cross my mind, im not in the mood.  I feel really bad for my husband. He gets mad sometimes and frustrated sometimes I just wanna do it for.him but its hard to get in any kind of mood :/
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