OVULATING, BUT DH GOT A PROBLEM PLS HELP

[akp077]

Please i need your advice am new on here.

My husband and i have been married for 5 months now and TTC. We have always had a healthy sex life until yesterday beacuse we decided to use an OPK for the 1st time to detect when i ovulate and just yesterday i had a smiley face , i was so xcited so i called him at work he was so excited that he said he was coming home during his break for us to have BD as he beleives it (ovulation) might not last more than 12 hours.

He came home and to my amazement we went a long time trying for him to have an orgasm but he couldnt then he lost erection all of a sudden. We tried again but he couldnt have a hard erection. We were frustrated so he went back to work.

When he came back we tried the same thing no hard erection. We went out to eat just to relax ourselves nad take our minds of it ( but remember we are trying to have a baby and we both know this is the exact time we can be lucky).

So again we tried this morning he did have an erection but he found it difficult to come and he lost it again. I AM SOOOOOOO WORRIED THAT I AM SCARED NOW. He has gone to work and he sent me an i am sorry text. i can imagine how he is feeling rite now. like he said this has never happend to him before.


You guys pls i need your advices, comments and suggestions.

Thnaks for reading.

God bless u all

[akp077]

thanks you all 4 the advices i am pretty sure he was just nervous . i gues  i will just try and not tell him next time

all d best to you all

[lmc2132]

The night I conceived I was EXTREMELY nervous and had a lot of trouble getting "into" it, so I can empathize with your DH!  It's a big deal--when one occasion of sex becomes the thing that changes your life forever.  Good luck!

[smjmekg]

Maybe he's really stressed about having to perform, he's probably feeling a little under pressure because he knows this is the time for you to get pregnant. It's hard for them to perform under pressure, my DH was like this last month. It could also be that he realizes once you're pregnant it won't just be the two of you anymore, and that he's going to have a another life to care for. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him if he's feeling pressured or stressed. He may not seem like it because he wants to make you happy. Talk to him. Good luck!

[MotherOFSweetieD]

Hi!
How long have you been TTC? When DH and I started TTC# 2 it was stressful I was keeping up with my CM and using a OPK and etc so our sex starting feeling like a job and that was not good. It sounds like your DH dont have a problem physically but may feel like he is under pressure, see if you can spice it up a little and try not telling DH when your ovulating because it is hard on the man lol. I know this because my DH told me that it is hard to just do it when you know your in baby making mode lol. C-ya!- Shay