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Cramps but No Period, Minor Pregnancy Risk

I have had cramps for the past two days, but my period has not shown up. Today is the 30th day of my cycle, and I don't usually track it (never had a reason to) but it always comes around the same time each month, usually a couple days earlier each month. I got my last period on July 20th.  I have never missed a period since I got my first one when I was 10 years old. This doesn't usually happen either. I usually just get cramps then get my period that day. I have been under a lot of stress lately, and I will explain why. I know this is a long explanation, and I'm sorry, but I need to know if I could possibly be pregnant from the situation am I about to describe.

On the 31st of July I was involved sexually with a man. We did not have sex. He did not ejaculate, but there was pre-seminal fluid on his penis. (He had used the restroom earlier if that makes a difference.) I know he adjusted himself several times, so I'm no positive if he got pre-seminal fluid on his fingers, but I assume he did. I don't exactly what his hands touched, if anything, after adjusting himself, but he deep-fingered me twice.

The whole month since then I have been experiencing a variety of stomach pains - most of them probably stress-related because I have felt so worried/guilty, but as of 2 days ago I've been having what I thought were on-and-off menstrual cramps - some sharp some dull.

I have talked to two doctors about my risk of pregnancy in this situation, a therapist and a gynecologist, and both said I was not at much real risk for pregnancy. But now my period is late, even though I am experiencing PMS symptoms. And I've read all over the internet that PMS symptoms without a period is a sign of pregnancy.

Also, if my period is delayed do to stress, is there anything I can do to make it come?

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I HAVE ALSO MISSED MY PERIODS AND THE STRANGE THING IS THAT I HAVE CRAMPS, I WENT FOR A TEST AND IT TURNED OUT NEGATIVE, AM YET TO GO FOR ANOTHER ONE. COULD I BE PREGNANT?
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So me and my boyfriend were messing around and I had my underwear on and everything and we didn't have sex and he didn't *** on me but I think that there was some pre-seminal fluid that might've came out. I have been having cramps and I should have gotten my period but nothing yet. Also a couple days ago I got some white discharge (gross I know) and I know they said that could be a symptom that your pregnant. I'm stressing out terribly, I'm not on birth control and I took a test and it was negative. Can someone please tell me if I could possibly be pregnant???
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I had a light pink show yesturday but my period hasn't come am a slim person my ribs and under arms have been painfull my breast have been tenderness and sore and it feels like I've gt hearburn near my chest I've already gt two kids but I lost weight about a year ago and now am a size 10 and didn't really feel anythin with my last two I was quiet a big person then x
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i was due for my period today but i havet got it i always start gettin cramps bout 2 days b4 i get my period but i havet had any cramps me n my bf r tryin to have a baby so would like to no whats goin on
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Its been 45 days since my last period I've not
been stressed or anything and I've taken 4 hpt all neg I've been getting a lot of cramping and feeling dizzy sometimes my breasts feel heavy like I'm going to come on but I haven't as of yet can anyone figure it out?
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I had unprotected sex the last day of my fertility week and my ovulation day. Im having cramps after sex and pain around my belly button area and my period is nearly 4 days late 3 to be exact. what should I do?
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