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Cramps but No Period, Minor Pregnancy Risk

I have had cramps for the past two days, but my period has not shown up. Today is the 30th day of my cycle, and I don't usually track it (never had a reason to) but it always comes around the same time each month, usually a couple days earlier each month. I got my last period on July 20th.  I have never missed a period since I got my first one when I was 10 years old. This doesn't usually happen either. I usually just get cramps then get my period that day. I have been under a lot of stress lately, and I will explain why. I know this is a long explanation, and I'm sorry, but I need to know if I could possibly be pregnant from the situation am I about to describe.

On the 31st of July I was involved sexually with a man. We did not have sex. He did not ejaculate, but there was pre-seminal fluid on his penis. (He had used the restroom earlier if that makes a difference.) I know he adjusted himself several times, so I'm no positive if he got pre-seminal fluid on his fingers, but I assume he did. I don't exactly what his hands touched, if anything, after adjusting himself, but he deep-fingered me twice.

The whole month since then I have been experiencing a variety of stomach pains - most of them probably stress-related because I have felt so worried/guilty, but as of 2 days ago I've been having what I thought were on-and-off menstrual cramps - some sharp some dull.

I have talked to two doctors about my risk of pregnancy in this situation, a therapist and a gynecologist, and both said I was not at much real risk for pregnancy. But now my period is late, even though I am experiencing PMS symptoms. And I've read all over the internet that PMS symptoms without a period is a sign of pregnancy.

Also, if my period is delayed do to stress, is there anything I can do to make it come?

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Hi I am 11 days late on my period and me n my bf ad unprotected sex 2 days before my period was due, he always pulls out and often inserts again, Im worried abt being pregnant bt Iam getting cramps like period like cramps bt noo period, anyone cud help wid this please I am very scared
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Infact I am having cramps for a week now but expecting period tomorrow. What can it be,I need help
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Infact I am having cramps for a week now but expecting period tomorrow. What can it be,I need help
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Pls I also need advice, I had sex 3days after ♍Ɣ period and he did pull out b4 ejaculation. And ♍Ɣ period is suppose 2 be out now but It's not coming and am having cramps and breast tenderness...... Could it be am pregnant?
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i experienced three days late period prior to ill health........... Appendicitis
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I know that a lot of people don't follow up on these boards, but I just wanted to report that I DID just get my period!  

I just wanted to sincerely say THANK YOU to those who responded to me with constructive advice!
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