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I been crying all night. I feel alone and unwanted and ugly :( hubby left to hang out with friends. Sometimes I feel like he's happy with me but he'd be happier without me. I just wanna run away. I have no friends he's my only friend my best friend and is always leaving to play basketball or soccer or work or something and i don't have a car so I'm stuck in the room all day because we live with his mom. I just feel so alone :( one of his co worker is so much prettier than me and my age he hangs with girls because he works at a bank and it's all females I just feel so insecure. I know he will never not has he cheated on me ever in our relationship I trust him I just want to feel loved a little more but I feel like I'm just 'there'. :''(
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Thanks I just try so hard and I think about him and making him happy 24/7 and I can't get 5 min of his time and attention
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Honey! Don't feel upset! That's not a good way to think. Your married and that's a positive thing. Those women wish they had your man. Maybe you need to show him that your interested in some of the things he like and suggest to do then with him. I started to pay a bit more attention to my hubby's needs he enjoys riding motor bikes so I learned about then and the sport. I don't ride them but it was enough to get his attention to spend time with me Watching it on tv and home instead of him goin out to watch it at his friends place.  It's not easy but maybe it's something you can try. Also make a little effort always looking hot and sexy. It turns them on. Put on a pair of heels and a bit of make up and a cute outfit for him. You might be suprised on how he will notice you more. It makes all the difference.  If your always in the room and he knows he probably feels they way you do. Spice it up a bit. Xox
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can you sit down and talk with him? since he is your best friend, tell him how you feel. Sorry, honey, when the baby is born he will have to stay home and help you, and you will get your body back. I felt insecure with myself too with my first pregnancy, I felt fat and ugly. just talk to him, go out for a dinner have a movie date or something? take his car and go get a hair cut, do something that will make you feel better about yourself:)
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Omg. I'm feeling the same way.
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