Question not pregnancy related

[MichelleHowell]

Sorry for posting something none related just needed some advice on what to do. I'm a single mom and don't have anyone to talk to... Me and my baby's dad arnt together but when he comes in off the road he stays with me. I'm still in love with him and I think he is too but we never seem to can talk to each other. I want him to know how I feel so I was going to write him. My question is with him being a truck driver and not knowing when I will see him again do I hand write it and wait till he comes in to give it to him or email it where he can read it out on the road? Or should I wait till i have our daughter to give it to him? Sorry it's so long but need help on what i should do. Thanks

[MichelleHowell]

He's the type that hates to see me cry and even more now that I'm pregnant so when I start to cry he doesn't want to talk about things anymore.

[jess-ann5]

Well you will have to deal with him regardless if you two are together or not. So maybe getting this out of the way now is best so that way any unresolved feelings can be dealt with before your daughter is there. You're going to want to focus on your baby girl when she is here, not your relationship issues.

[MichelleHowell]

I agree and don't want things to be awkward when he's here cuz he will be here for a week when our daughter is born.

[jess-ann5]

Personally, I like to talk about my feelings. Just come right out and say it.

But this has to be what you are more comfortable doing. If you want to write him a letter, maybe do it before he comes to stay with you again. Put it in his jacket pocket right before he leaves. Then see what happens. This might work out good so that way if he doesn't feel the same way about you then there isn't that aukward feelings between the two of you while he stays at your house.

[Star3789]

I think u should email it so he has time to think about bfor he gets home.