Dealing with BD

[RissaBbyGurl]

Anyone else wanna smack the HELL out of your baby daddy? I feel alone as heck and hes really pissing me off, im tired of being in pain and doing everything myself, he doesnt even answer my fricken texts i just wanna keep crying but i reign it in because i know its not good for baby. Im 32 weeks 5 days

[Missjen566]

I feel the same way about mine too..caught him in some lies an wouldn't answer my texts when u he was out...I just left and told him what I expected of him and if he didn't own up then so be in. He eventually came crying to me...and has completely changes but I still worry every day..men news a wakeup call sometimes. Give him one..you're a strong woman!

[RissaBbyGurl]

@babymama im sorry some guys are horrible pigs:( yeah i didnt text him when he texted me. Maybe thatll open his eyes

[babymama1985]

Oh yeah here's my advice: stop texting him. Let him.know who is in control. Make him sweat. If he cares he will show u if not then at least u will know. Its always better knowing. Men don't get it. And especially the ones who can't even stick around get it even less. They are extremely selfish. Its netter to accept it. It happens over time. But u can't change him and make him show u. I had to accept the same thing. It still is something I work on. Don't worry....you're not alone in this.

[babymama1985]

Yes I actually think about running mine over with a truck....he cheated on me and then lied for two months about seeing her still. Nice right? While the entire two months he made me feel like oh we might work out and we have four months to see if we can....ha lying no good scum bag pos. So needless to say I've dealt with everything on my own and had to go to er today too. And everytime something happens I think to myself while I am here doing this by myself he is off have a grand old time with his new gf. Makes me wanna pummel him. Or wish he would vanish from the earth.

[mrssandefur]

Sometimes you just gotta let it.out. Crying isn't bad for baby it helps relive your stress which is good for baby. And yes my husband drives me.up the wall, he works 40 hours a week at a job while I work 24/7 with a one yr old at 24/3-4 with a one year old and a two year old (we have.my oldest 3-4 days a week depending on the week) and 24/7 with one a baking! He doesn't get it. I'm beginning to think most men don't. I don't have any advice as I'm dealing with the same.things but just know you're not alone.