by the way, are you sure you would aactually have to move if you had this baby? If you are positive, yes this will be stressful on you.. and probably your ex as well, but maybe if he learns you are pregnant with your curent boyfriend that's what it will take for him to move on and leave you alone.
Just think about what you decide because you are the only one who can make a decision, but make sure you weigh the decisions.
There is a song that just came out and was released here in Texas with one of the most awesome song titles, that basically talks about this very thing, only from a fathers perspective, it is called The Best Mistake of My Life and that has got to be the truest statement I have ever heard in my life when it comes to my children.
hey, i dont think there is ever a time when you will have a clue weather you will be a good mom or not or where to start, even after 2 kids its still a learning experance to me. all i can say is look at your options, decide whats your heart tells you.
yes i do have to move out as my sister does not want to live with me and a baby which i respect.
It can be very scary to bring a child into the world when you feel as though you are not ready (is anyone ever really "ready"?) However, I can assure you that it is even more scary to abort one's own offspring and have to live with the guilt from doing so. But from the looks of it, you really dont want to, which is a good thing :-) Dont let anyone tell you that you are not ready to have your child, because quite honestly the fact that you are concerned for your unborn child shows that you ARE ready, in my opinion. I think you will be a great mom :-)
Hi-
i was 15 when i got pregnant with my daughter (shes 7 now) and i know how it feels for you to feel like you are going to disappoint people or be a "failure" BUT let me tell you. Its not like that at all, sure at first people might not be so fond of the idea of a baby, but it DOES NOT ruin your life. I had my daughter, finished high school, went to beauty school and now am a manager of hair salon, also preggo with #2! :) and i never imagined having a child so young, but she is the best thing that ever happened to me. i dont think you are ever really "ready" to have a baby, but its the best blessing in the world. please dont harm your baby, there is too many people in this world that CANT have babies. there is always adoption. please give your baby a chance to live a wonderful life even if its not with you!