Destiny... Vent

[ajaponte]

My husband bought the game before the release and plays it well into morning. We had to move our ps4 into our bedroom so he could play and not wake our 20 month old son. I'm 23 weeks and have trouble falling asleep and if I wake up after I finally get to sleep I'm up for the day. Now, I'm not the type of girl who complains about her significant other playing video games all the time because I was a gamer before we had our first and I understand his attachment to it. However, I'm getting sick of being kept up at night when I am dead tired from being pregnant and taking care of our son all day. Every single night, and he doesn't mind his volume. He yells constantly when playing the game, his excuse is that he can't hear himself because of the headset he uses. I don't care. You can feel how loud you are talking. Every night this week I have fallen asleep with a raging headache because he won't keep his voice down. My son wakes me up at 6/7 am every morning, so me being kept up until 3/4 am is wearing me out. I don't care that he's playing. I just wish he wouldn't yell.

[ajaponte]

Well, I'm not complaining about not having sex, I'm not really wanting it at this point in the pregnancy. Even if I did, we would have to wait for our son to go to sleep and he starts playing way before then. I'm just uncomfortable in every position and always too hot. Sex wouldn't help as much as I wish it did. Lol.

[MePlusMyTwo]

Try having sex before he starts playing and see if you sleep better. Wouldn't hurt rite

[ajaponte]

My son still nurses to sleep so I would have to wake up and take care of him. My husband works hard all week to support us and makes it so I can stay at home with our children. It's just super frustrating. I have said something many times but it does no good. I will be co sleeping with this one for the first year like I did with our first so I told him no games after this little one is born. If I have to I'll sleep in our guest room every night. He knows he's being selfish and inconsiderate but he doesn't care right now. We haven't had sex for over a month because I'm asleep before he finishes playing every night. Lol.

[MePlusMyTwo]

Move the game back into the living room if he wakes you guys son he should have to put him back to sleep. He is a grown man with children now so he needs to adjust

[hellojojo2200]

Thats reallly inconsiderate of him..id be totally livid!!... sorry..I shud have   a stern talk with him...if he hasnt listend b 4... u gotta mkae it clear how much it bothers u and how hard it is for u ...