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just need emotional support:/

I'm 17 weeks & 5 days pregnant and my baby's father is something else! He hasn't talked to me since the 22nd because he went back to the other girl who he had a kid with already, no warning or anything.  He just stopped texting me oh but he doesn't tell me he went back, I have to do my spying and find out.
I guess he walked out on my pregnant self because I never did what he wanted, because he would always be asking ME for money so he can buy shoes and clothes or to pay his bill. Like wtf do I look like a bank!? He's just been a deadbeat since the gecko and it hurts you know, seeing him take pictures with them and he ignores me while I'm pregnant! His own friends say that the baby that girl has isn't his but yet he's still their. While he knows that this baby is his 100%. I just don't know what to do,  it hurts and I know I should stress but my baby doesn't deserve this.
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2170635 tn?1357911686
No problem :) hope you feel better keep ur head up
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Ok if you knew how he was like from the getco why stay? Why allow yourself that chance to become pregnant by him? Anyway i know it seems hard right now but things will eventually work out...just make sure you focus on u and da baby and soon or later u will find someone dat cares for u and ur child...or if he got any good sense he will realized that he needs to be a father for his kid but i cant say if he will come back to you...get him on child support, get welthfare, find a job, fix urself up and just basically take care of u and dat baby
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Thank you, I really needed to hear that(:
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2170635 tn?1357911686
You don't need him ur better off ur strong and a good mommy :) I'm 100% he went back to er because she's his own personal bank and does what he want. You don't need that all you need is ur baby
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