This is a tough one. I understand both of your opinions, seriously I have no idea what I would do in this situation. I am sorry I must have missed your original post about getting an ammino. Has your doctor given you a reason to believe that your baby girl could have ds???
I hope you guys can come into agreement about this decision. Just like Kimberlee said either way your baby girl will be loved no matter what!!
Good luck and I keep you guys in my prayers!
I would do it just to better prepare myself for her arrival. I'd just explain to him it's not going to change your mind about how much you love her, it's in god's hands no matter if you get the amnio or not, and being prepared for her arrival and taking the precautions you need to after shes born is important. If he still isn't okay with it, it *****, but it IS your body, so do what you think is best for you and your baby. Good luck!!