I totally understand! I have a 2 yr old who I share custody with my exhusband and sometimes I just wish he wasn't so judgmental and wouldn't jump to (she doesn't wanna spend time with him) and I could ask him to take him early, cause like when my BIL and SIL are home I literally wont see my 1 yr old until bedtime lol but my 2 yr old even though he's very self sufficient he doesn't like playing with bubbu and my BIL and I can't take a nap or anything like I'd like to.
@Jenn yeah its a crazy feeling cuz you don't wanna say it to him and look like the evil step mom..lol its just not wanting to do a lot of back and forth right now. If he was going to be home then that's different. I cnt just sleep all day like I want.
I think its just the weekend you really never know with her. Your right there is a playground where we just moved to. I could send them over there.,I just feel so bad. I rather just lie in my bed you know
Is it just for a weekend or longer? Maybe try planning stuff put side the house even if its at a playground or the pool or something, some would have to go with you of course as I know this far along its hard to chase kids lol but maybe just plan a bunch of stuff you.know they'll enjoy and.maybe that'll lessen the arguments and stress?
Makes me feel a lil better hearing you say that. My husbands ex hates that he is happy so she hasnt let him see ia kids for over a year. We are getting to pick them up next week for 2 Weeks & I am freaking out too! I have been so tired with this pregnancy I am so worried about being able to keep up with them!