advice and help please

[mee25]

My sistervin law wants us to camp with her in a tent at the beach. Being almost 35weeks pregnant i refuse to go but toldy husband he can go if he want because i thought he would not want to leave me and go. But now he is telling me that he would go and i really dont want him to go. Help me with this situation please.

[wyattsmom2015]

Be honest. I think you should go.

[tauruan92]

You guys will enjoy this break in the long run when the baby comes stress levels will be at and all time high

[nabilahazrul]

But if you're kind and brave enough id agree w peanutbutteroreo ^^ might as well just take this opportunity to take a break and self-time for yourselves. It might turn out to be good

[specialmom]

If you told him he can go, let him go.  it's not really fair for him to then make plans to do it and then you say "nope, on second thought ,. . ."  

good luck

[mommaDof3]

Men aren't exactly mind readers lol. You told him that he could go and he didn't know that you didn't mean it and w I us like him to stay. So you can either him go and not say anything or you can tell him that you really didn't want him to go and you thought he would have stayed with you anyways after ok'ing it, but that could cause a disagreement and if it were me I would just deal with him going.

[nabilahazrul]

Some men just cant take the hint. Just do what you shouldve done at first,be honest. Tell him you're too exhausted for anything at this point and itd be lovely and sweet if he could be around and stay with you since you're almost at the end of this journey. Never know when labour might kick in! Plus you'd need all the support u can get from him. Tell him nicely. He'll surely understand. And next time learn your lesson not to tell him to go out when you really want him to stay close. Men just dont have the same kind of mind processors like us women.haha learnt that the hard way.

[peanutbutteroreo]

Well not really much you can do since you told him to go. Let him go have some fun. It won't be to long and you guys won't get to do anything. I'd just let him go enjoy himself. Pamper yourself while he's gone.