Getting really sick of this.

[jessicaann21]

So I'm 17 and have been with 3 people total (sexually) my boyfriend being one of them. He has only ever been with me. And he cannot seem to get over my past. And I'm getting really sick of him randomly getting upset about it and being cold towards me. It's not like its something I can change, and he just always makes me feel like crap for it.

[rosey3216]

Honestly I'm not sure how to help with this because I have been with 3 people total including my bf (I am 18). And my bf has been with more than he could count really, he is 25. He started having sex at age 11, and I just started a year and a half ago. It does bother me, not only because I hate the thought of him being with another woman, but I am insecure about whether he even enjoys sex with me or not since I'm so inexperienced compared to him, and half the time that's why people cheat, because they're not happy in their relationship sexually. I always wonder if he's comparing me to them or thinking how horrible I am at it or whatever. I try not to hold it against him, because all the other girls were before we got together, and I know he can't change it, but I am insecure and that's why it bothers me.

What I would want my bf to do for me, is what I would do for your bf if I were you; tell him that that is your past and you don't live there anymore. You want him and ONLY him, you love him and there isnt anyone else you'd rather have a baby with.

I wish my bf would say that to me.. :'(

[hayang]

all in all the only thing that'll make him get over it is time. hubby used to be the same way. after three years though, it doesn't matter anymore about his past or mine. I've been with more people than I'd like to say but that doesn't matter anymore cuz he's the one I married nd whose baby I'm carrying

[carolineclarkx]

Tell him that your with him and no other guys,  thats hes the one you picked and the one that will be having your baby.  Should put a smile on his face x

[jessicaann21]

And we've talked about how he acts when he's upset and everything and every time he says sorry and that he won't do it again, but he just keeps doing it.