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help ladies i need help idk wats the right decision

So I have a major decision I need a forshure awnser i cant keep changing my mind. Im 5 month pregnant with my boyfriend that ive been dating for 2 years, he lives in AZ with his dad, & i live with my mom in cali so its a long distance relationship we have, but now that im pregnant we both agree we want to live togthere before the bby comes in june. Wejust dont no if were guna live in az or cali. The thing is out in az its really boring for me i feel like im getting more unhealthy me nd the bby being here. Its do cold in az i cant go for a walk. My bf doesnt have a car so we dont go anywerr. His dad takes 90% of his paycheck. We sleep in the living room his dad smokes ciggs all the time. Wen i was werking in cali id always by litle things for the bby. But my mom would constantly argue with me at home so would my brother. But at least in cali i. Not always in the house id walk to the store nd not get sick. Id take the bus places if i had no ride. Nothing is walking distance in az. I just dont no where i wanna move with my bf or my mom. They both have wat i need??? If i move to az me nd my bf would have r own place...
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I think you and your bf would do much better in AZ because less taxes and cheaper rents but in CA you have your family which your going to need when your baby is here.. It's a tough decision that you and your bf have to make together!
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5761111 tn?1373906251
I know its weird to start at a new place. Im from los angeles and im moving to Apple valley within a few weeks. I know its scary but if ur going to have ur own place in Az I would go move over there plus ur man already has a stable job over there. It's not always going to be cold plus u wi have ur baby in the summer. Think about it write down the pros and cons of living in California and Arizona.
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7157499 tn?1411821385
You should do what you feel is best for you and your baby
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