So stressed

[Ariel_21]

I'm so stressed Im pregnant and I have a 3 year old I only get a certain amount of money a month. I did not think I was gonna be a single parent of two doing it by myself my baby's dad said he will help but haven't yet and I have no support or help from my family so it's just me doin everything by myself. And all I got for my son was clothes and a bounce a pack it NB diapers and three packs of wipes. And I'm 30 weeks and since Im doing everything by myself I feel like I'm not gonna have everything he needs. :/ and I can't stop crying. Sorry ladies just needed to get it out instead of keepin it in.

[Ariel_21]

Thanks @Stacy

[StacyAl]

Ahh man, I know of places here in Minnesota. That's why I asked. Good luck though!

[Ariel_21]

I like in a small town in california. Thanks ladies I will look into it.

[kmama2011]

See if you have any programs that offer help where you live. In indy we have a program called bibs and they help you get a carseat crib and clothes even diapers. Maybe theres something similar? Or see if you can find a second hand childerns store. I get everything for my son at once upon a child. You may not have that place but im sure theres something

[StacyAl]

Try looking for places that sell used baby stuff. They might be a little discolored, but I don't think that's a big deal. Where do you live?

[patiti91]

U should ask around im pretty sure theres places where they can help u out.. in co theres places where u get like 30 pairs of baby clothing diapers and blankets etc. Churches help alot too

[Ariel_21]

@glavez I do have food stamps and I only have 2 friends and all they have is girls stuff and I'm havin a boy.

[Ariel_21]

Yea I did only like 4 people showed up and I only got clothes and a few pacifiers

[Galvez]

im sorry for wat ure going thru. Try applying for wic or food stamps atleast with the money ull save on groceries u can buy wat u need for ure baby. Or ask some of ure friends if they might be willing to give u some of their kids stuff that they dont need. But i hope everything works out for u

[kimmy7409]

Have you had a baby shower yet? I didn't have anything for my daughter until my baby shower which was 2 weeks ago and im 38+4 so you can imagine how much I was stressing!