can someone be pregnant if...

[pepito1]

A friend of mine is very scared because she thinks she may be pregnant. she told me that all that happened was: "my bf just rubbed his penis against my vagina once and placed the head inside for less than 3 seconds, he didn't came, not while doing it and not before doing it... so there cant be any sperm in there, right?"

so... it's been arround 4-5 weeks now, i remember her telling me she found some dots in the vagina area around 1-2 week after the event also around 1-2 weeks ago she called me scared because she had some fluid in her belly that looked like sweat in the shirt, not much tho, just a bit... and the belly was red. (she was scratching it the night before...), and her period is supposed to come in next week.

any help?

[abbieball]

people saying she wont have an itchy belly is crazy because i was in my friends wedding at 1 month and was already showing so not everyone is the same i look like i am about 6-7 months pregnant and am only 3 months so test

[njrohe]

There is a good chance your friend is not pregnant, but if she doesn't want to get pregnant, it is important that your friend knows that you can get pregnant without actually having a guy ejaculate inside you, in fact, he doesn't even have to be inside you.  So, advise your friend to test, and practice safe sex in the future -- use protection!!!

[sakers1985]

Well there are big chances.. ppl can get pregnant when a man and her share the same bath water and he ejaculates in the water.. there is pre ejaculant and that is just the same as ***. I think you might want to have your friend take a test. I spotted when I became prego.  Guys do not have to *** to make a baby at all time.. just get a little excited. I know.. i am prego

[spade22]

Its impossible to put a % chance on this.  However, if she takes a HPT test now and its negative, there is a 99.9% chance she is not pregnant - she is well within the accurate testing window regardless of when her period is due.

[pepito1]

ok... : (

what are chances?

[JoyRenee]

Okay, it's been long enough. Have her buy a pregnancy test and take it. If it says negative, she's not.

[pepito1]

hmmmmmm i talked to the guy, it was less than 5 secs and he wasnt about to come, neither tried to o.o... he just puted bit of it in, pulled out really quick D:

[njrohe]

There is sperm in the pre-semen also before a guy ejaculates, so yes, it IS POSSIBLE to get pregnant this way.

[pepito1]

whew x.x...  so she may not be preg x.x...

il call her and tell her, well see next week when her period is supposed to come :x

thanks all.

[debgunn23]

You can get pregnant but if it was only once and less than 5 seconds chances are shes not pregnant but if he did precum at the time or ***, theres a possibility. I wouldnt worry until she misses her period. dots huh, thats not usually signs of pregnancy...plus this early she probably wont notice much of anything. I didnt feel crappy until i was 6 weeks pregnant. Way after i missed my period. My very first sign i think at 4  or 5 weeks i had a one day slight bleeding. I didnt need a pad or anything. Thats called spotting when the baby plants itself. She wouldnt be itchy from pergnancy this early. More than likely it probably is just a cell.

[pepito1]

even if it was just the head? and less than 5 seconds?

also, should she have any symptoms?

[spade22]

"my bf just rubbed his penis against my vagina once and placed the head inside for less than 3 seconds, he didn't came, not while doing it and not before doing it... so there cant be any sperm in there, right?"

WRONG!  She CAN get pregnant this way.  A home pregnancy test will be accurate about 2 weeks after possible conception.  Since this event happened over a month ago she can take a test now and that will be accurate.