Please dnt let me be pregnant!

[lovedenise]

im 16 years old and i recently lost my virginity. i lost it July 25th. me and my boyfriend did not use a condom and i was not on birth control. but my bf pulled out when he had to ***. on the 29th of July we did it again and my bf didnt know if he pulled out in time. I start my period the 15th of every month and it ends the 20th. In August it came on the 14th. (Does that mean anything?????) the day i came off my cycle we had sex again and from then on we do it a lot. i started taking birth control on Wednesday August 18th. Now my breasts are really sore and i have been having pains in certain spots in my stomach. I dont know what is wrong with me, can anyone help???????????? I would really appreciate your theories and comments on what you think is happening. Thank you in advance

[Robynh422]

Just out of practicality, your cycle can't come on the 15th of EVERY month, some months have 28, 30, or 31 days, so the one day difference does not mean anything.  But the simple fact is having unprotected sex can get you pregnant.  BC pills are probably what is causing your symptoms but I would be careful these next few months just to be safe.  

[lovedenise]

Thank you all so much

[custom_sewing]

I think that if you knew some basic information, then you would not worry so much.  If you have decided to have sex, and it seems as if you have, then first thing first....keep it in mind that AIDs and other sexual diseases do not have an age limit and you are definitely putting yourself in harms way by not using condoms.  No other birth control method will work and are useless in keeping sexual diseases away from you.  Second thing is that once in awhile, some of the most consistent periods can change once in awhile.  This can be due to any number of harmless things, such as changes in stress level, etc.  And last, but certainly not least, you HAVE to be on birth control at least ONE FULL MONTH before it will keep you from getting pregnant...it takes it that long to even BEGIN to work, so if you are having sex then you are playing with fire as far as pregnancy goes.  Most likely your "ache and pains" are coming from the hormones in the pill, but no one can say for sure.  Hope this helps.

[Cassandrajane]

You should use Condoms as well as BC! Normally BC does takes 3 months to work properly. And have full effect. But NO birthcontrol is 100% effective and someone gets pregnant on BC everyday!

Oh and Btw, The pullout method doesnt work either. Because of pre *** I got pregnant on the Pill AND using the Pull out method. :).

Use BC AND a condom!! And the reactions are probably from the Pill

[AnnieBrooke]

I really think you should be using condoms this month.  The breast tenderness is probably a reaction to being on the Pill.

[smjmekg]

It's probably from your birth control, it can take some time for your body to adjust to it. You should be using a condom for the first week for sure but the first three months a lot of birth control will say it's not as effective.