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Falling out of love
I'm pregnant with my third child by my husband and I know I love him but at the same time I don't want to be with him anymore. I just don't trust him bc 7 years ago he cheated and made a baby although we don't know if the baby is his. It hurts me every time I think about it. I had just had our second child and found out I was pregnant again when I shared that with him its when he decided to tell me he had cheated and someone else was pregnant. Is it my hormones? Or maybe its time for me to just move on? I'm just so confused and miserable.
Not hormones. I got with my husband but back than was my boyfriend. He had slept with a girl before me and she was pregnant. Until the baby was born I was always upset with the thought that might be his kid. Well it turned out it wasnt. But being cheated on would just add salt to the wound. Do What You Feel Is Right. Just make sure that leaving him is what u really want .
If the trust is gone and you bring it up, I would say that shows it is something your heart will not let you move past. Your gut knows if he will cheat again and you still are suspicious of his behavior. Do you want your children growing up knowing momma always snoops through dads things? Or what if test shows that IS his child? Since he didnt want you while you were pregnant are you so sure he wont decide this other woman and child would be a bettef family for him? You got a lot on your plate momma. Just listen to your heart and gut. Good luck
I did forgive but I haven't forgotten and now that I'm pregnant again I feel like he will do it again. I check his Facebook and I caught him talking to other women sometimes younger than the two of us. I'm just lost.
No one deserves to be cheated on && I understand that sometimes you forgive someone because you think it will help you heal but later you realize its unforgivable && forgiving did your heart no good . Leave him so you can find happiness with a man that wont have eyes for anyone but you , let alone cheat . You deserve it .
If she forgive back than and he has been a good man ever since why leave him everyone deserve a second chance
Im going through almost the same thing. I'm pregnant with baby #2 and right before we found out I was pregnant my husband told me he cheated on me with women he works with. I have nightmares about it .I always bring it up when I'm angry at him .It drives me crazy and I thought it was just my hormones but its not .What he did I cant forgive and as much as I love him I know I need to move on and you do to .I know its easier said then done trust me I have tryed to leave several times and I always come back but I finally told my self I need to be strong for my kids and for my self .You deserve better .It will be hard but you have to do what's best for you and your kids .
Get Out... You Don't Need Him And He Is Obviously Feeling The Same Or He Wouldn't Be Cheating!
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