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Family in law problems...

I'm very upset and need to know if I'm over reacting... My bfs fan has never really showed much interest in me they care for there soon to be grandchild but don't really care for me and I've done nothing wrong I think they hate that I got pregnant by him because I'm 19 and he is 24 and I thinks they feel like I'm holding him back but anyway my bf seen that his mom refriended his ex on Facebook and his dad is always writing on her wall it's really upsetting to the point where I just want him to deal with all the interactions involving them seeing our son my feelings are really hurt idk what to do I might be letting hormones get to me but I need to know if I'm wrong
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Yeah I know I was asking myself if I was doing something wrong but it's her
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12863897 tn?1427565851
The Same with us wow feel a little better that it's not me she's just crazy and want to control a grown man who she should be proud of
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My bf has two older brothers and they both depend on her and we don't she try's to dictate us but it doesn't work it's just annoying
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12863897 tn?1427565851
And That's not right she done more than a Christian woman should that I've never some why judge someone based off them wearing make up Oh n she hates by pink lip stick I love pink so I'm not going to stop just because she want me to people say that there's nothing wrong with me that his mom just feel I came and took her baby especially since we live together now but he's grown it's life ig she wants him to be living at home with her like his sis is for the rest of his life.
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My bfs mom is a women of God too they seem to be the pat judgemental
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12863897 tn?1427565851
I feel you my bf mom doesn't like me and his sister who is 25 live with his mother he is 24 and also the youngest I don't know why she doesn't like me either I've been nice respectful and everything she's always talking about me but never yp my face but she's supposed to be a woman of God I don't understand he says he took up for me but she still has an fake attitude. And since I've been pregnant I've gotten emotional over it because I've done nothing wrong so I feel you I'm 20 will be 21 7/19
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He has his bachelors degree and we live in a suburb area like an hour away from Chicago and there aren't really that many careers  around here for him and I don't wanna move away from my family but if he found a good job that we could afford to live on comfortably I would move with him but he hasn't found that yet and I think that they think I'm holding him hostage here even tho we've both told them that's not the case
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13167 tn?1327194124
I wonder,  what do they think you're holding him back from?  He's 24.  What has he accomplished so far?  Has he got a good start on a life career?  

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