Father to be. need help!!

[cainpeterson]

I am 19 years old. How do I make my pregnant fiance happy and feel better about herself if she lIves 45mins away. I do not have a car and only see her on the weekends if that. I'm trying to get a job but what can I say, do, or give her to make her stay happy with all of her hormones out of wack and her having depression.. please help!?

[brittanyhinch]

Just be there for her. It's the best. All I want is my baby's daddy to be there for me, but he's out chasing another girl... if she says something about craving something, get it.  I know it made me so happy when my brother brought me McDonald's even though he doesn't like it, I was wanting it

[danyell1109]

Well I'm in a similar situation my bf lives about 45 minutes away and I only get to see him on Wednesdays and Saturdays and I'm 28 weeks pregnant and I don't have a phone to even text him when he's not here it ***** we are going to be moving in together hopefully in November but I just really hate not getting to see him I mean were having a baby together its defiantly not the situation I thought I would be in my advice to you speaking threw personal experience be there for her as much as possible talk to her about her feeling so she knows you care pregnancy in itself is rough! But adding depression and the fact that you live so far away doesn't help try and make her feel like a princess tell her how beautiful she is and how excited you are about the life that you've created together that would make me feel better

[cainpeterson]

I want to move out there but I don't have a place to even live out there.. I would move in with her but her dad said there isn't enough room.. also him and I aren't as close as we used to be ever since she got pregnant.. I'm lost cause I want to make her happy but living in Peoria and not there really does suck;/

[yesenia5]

The best advice I can give is move there and try to get a job where she lives she needs someone there not so much things or words especially if she has depression make sure your contact with her is often everything is worse when your pregnant the last thing you want to feel is being alone in pregnancy.  Caring is a start good luck!

[rachaelbutsch]

Just be there for her no matter what if she cries over something so simple just try and understand just be understanding and let her know u are there for her till the end

[cainpeterson]

I do, I live in Peoria, il. And asking you and everyone else out there if you can help me out on baby things and finding a job.. it's almost impossible!!

[Olga_Mercado]

Buy her food an her cravings when ever you can and just be extra gentle and always ask about the baby how the baby an her are doing !