Feeling Emotional and lonely

[Hooyo]

Ok in January 2011 i got married and moved to be with my husband i got pregnant 2 months later and was over the moon i have a brillant husband who will do anything for me but i feel so lonley

my son is now 9 months and since moving i havnt met anyone i worked while pregnant but the ladys where all alot older than me n most them quite bitchy to be honest

i have inlaws here but if i go to visit i end up cooking and cleaning for them which i dont mind but i wanna have adult convo they dont talk much n i do enough chores at hme n sometimes wanna get away from it.

the problem is where i used to live i was very popular i knew everyone and  worked as manager in busy salon n got on with all the clients ect and was always out and about with something to do also if i had my baby ther i would know where to take him for activities and know other mums ect

where i live now the people aint as open there nothing for babys to do im trying to find mum and babys swimming or something to do but nothing ,when the weather nice which isnt often i take my baby for walk but get more sad when i see groups of mums together with there kids n im alone n i just wanna cry im pregnant again i dont want my son to be lonley to sometimes i feel he must b bored just with me at home most days ,i give my husband alot of headache at times coz  im bored he works and try to do stuff with us at weekend so we doing something but its when hes at work im lost

i feel like ive even lost my confidence as i havnt gone out much for ages which is sad as before i was very confiedent

i feel so sad n alone

[Hooyo]

thanks ladys yes my husband tells me that some ladys might know alot people but atleast u have husband n kids who love u alot n it take times meeting people will come i totally agree just have days where it gets to me but i am grateful for what ive got

on a positive note i joined a website called net mums n found a swimming class that starts in sept for babys so im looking foraward to take my baby swimming n found a soft play area insted of sitting alone sad it time to get out n enjoy with my baby i dont really need someone to join me also my mum called n shes coming this weekend to visit me :)

thanks ladys :)

[lera1130]

Maybe you can visit where you used to live. Not sure how far it is. But if its not too bad make it every two week trip or if its farther a 1-2 month trip. That way you have something to look forward to...