Feeling down prt 2..

[kiccolini]

So I already made a post about this if some of you read it... well for those who haven't .. I'm invited to my friends wedding this Saturday its a Muslim wedding by the way and so my bf starts sayin he dosent wana go cause he has nothin to wear and so today I asked his brother if him n his gf(she's white) is going and he said his gf can't go cause his mom dosent want her to cause she's white and that's a shame bein seen with a white girl cause there Muslim and somalian. so I'm white to and I tell my bf so that's the real reason u dont wana go huh? and he says we can still go... like seriously I'm sick of this bs and feeling so down graded about my religion and race just cause I'm not Somalian shouldn't mean anything. and I'm 30 weeks and I'm seriously breaking down I can't stop crying cause I have to stay at his moms till we get our place..and his brother also said I can't stay here when the wedding comes cause Somalian people are coming here n I can't be seen...and my bf left to work when we got into this so I'm really upset

[kiccolini]

And when the baby comes we should be in our own place and I don't want my baby around his family

[kiccolini]

Thank you ladies...I'm trying not to stress..I think I'm staying at his sister in laws house for a week since all these people are coming to his house for that wedding..And he says were gonna go so will see

[mom2b819]

If u keel stressin urself out u may go into preterm labor.... perhaps u stand up for urself and get urself out of that situation before something happens to ur baby because of all the stress... and hun its gonna be worst when the baby gets here

[happyfeet88]

If they dnt accept now wts gona hppn wen the baby comes, perhaps u shud leave an go stay wth a relative, God wil guide u dear, hope it works out for u :)

[Mzkay03]

Thats the worse ive ever heard.. I read ur first post and I mean that really upsets me that they r treating u that way because ur white, how long do u got before yall place come thru? And why is ur bf not standing up for you? First u should put him im gis place because if he love u for u he would not allow that bs to happen he would set his mom straight too!!! I hope u stand up for yourself soon and get out of that situation its not good to stress urself or the baby because of that ignorance!!

[brit0585]

Wow that's terrible. I'm sorry. I don't know what else to say. Just sad they are so unaccepting due to your skin color.  Thats ridiculous

[carebearmomma]

I'm sorry your feeling so down. It's not right that you are being judged because of your race & religion. I do hope thing work out tho. Try and relax, its not good to be stressed out ..... it's hard, I know. Just keep your head up & stay strong!

[Mom_2_Be_4]

I'm sorry to hear that no one should have to go through that. I wouldn't want to be somewhere I'm not wanted but do you have any family members that you go stay with til you get on your feet(your own apartment) you don't need the stress it's not good for you or your baby. Pray hun and have faith god will make a way for you and your baby. But keep your head up and be strong. I'm not sure where you live but try looking up public housing and she if you can get help it don't hart to try. Or just get on the Internet and see if there is any thing out there to help pregnant moms with housing. I hope everything work out for you. God Is Good And He Will Make A Way!!

[kiccolini]

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