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10590854 tn?1411713168

Feeling down :(

Normally I cope with the emotions I go through with my boyfriend but today it seem like I can't do it anymore
We went to Wal*Mart (with my oldest sister) to grab our daughter a cloths cabinet and the box fell on his foot ...I started to laugh a little because it was funny but stop because I was feeling bad for him so I went to go sit down on the box that fell on his foot to rub his toes but he said "that **** isn't funny" and kicked me and called me a dumb *** I tired my best to hold back the tears because we was in front of my sister and another lady...when we gotten into the car my sister told him that he shouldn't kicked me and call me out my name because it hurts a pregnant person feelings....and all he had to say was "that damn box hurted my feet" I still haven't heard I'm sorry from him...thought out my whole pregnancy its been about him and his feelings...it's bad enough I'm in physical pain.. but to be in emotional pain too is just too much :(
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Kicking you especially while you're pregnant is kind of absurd.  I'm not here to say leave him because I myself know how hard that could be. I've been with the same dude aince 2011 and when we argue he can say some pretty harsh things but so do I. I know I can do better but what we have works for us.  I can say you don't deserve that and neither does your child. He's clearly an butt whole for kicking you regardless of how hard it was.
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8744108 tn?1411750437
I get it hun. When you love someone, there's no forcing yourself to turn it off just like that. But he's not only verbally abusing you, he is physically hurting you also. It's not about walking away because you don't love him, it's having self respect and dignity. And if he's gonna do that to you, who's to say he won't to your child? Making excuses for him is only going to show him what he did is okay.
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10590854 tn?1411713168
Ik a lot of you saying leave him bug call me crazy its kinda hard for someone like me to just walk away because when I love..I love strong and for me to just up and leave would be kinda tough we been dating for a year and four months besides I live with him ...
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Dam he kicked his pregnant girlfriend smh i dont care if it was a little tiny kick thats messed up i definitely woulda cried im such a crybaby lol
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I'd say leave him. No man should kick you ever !
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10590854 tn?1411713168
Thanks.
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7409776 tn?1408929189
That's not right.. at all. Especially kicking you? You don't need that. It'll just be worse once the baby is born. It's you and your babys safety that come before anything!
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8744108 tn?1411750437
He's kicking you? And while you're pregnant? Leave him, dear. There's no justifying that. He has a lot of growing up to do.
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