Freak out fridays

[worriedbabe]

Last pregnancy, there was an ingenius woman on here who put a thread up called ' moody mondays '. Its purpose was for anyone to vent about what's angered them that week, or simply just say how things are going for them. Man, i miss that thread. So, as it's friday, same idea different day.

[EnvyWaltz]

Hello everyone,

Normally I would only go through and read all the threads but today I felt the need to say something.

I'm a stay at home mom with a 3yr old daughter my husband is military we are high school sweethearts for 6 years. I'm 21 and doing way better than most my age.
Anyways, since I take of the apartment, do all the shopping for food, and pay bills while he's at work. Some days my morning sickness really takes over and I will ask him for something simple like hey can you do dinner tonight while I relax or hey take the dog out. I feel like I'm asking him to pull off his arm. He makes comments like "sure I didn't just work all day"

[worriedbabe]

Sounds like he's lazy to me

[worriedbabe]

That dr *****! And how stupid to wake you up - you need your rest! I'd get another dr, and start messin with him at 3am when you get up to pee and see how he likes it!

[sammi1208]

Luckily my bf lives with me. But latley he has trouble finding steady work. He'll go 2 or 3 times a week with his friends to work like painting houses or just handyman jobs. But he hasn't been paid yet. So I am basically stuck paying all the bills and its stressful. To top it off he hasn't been helping around the house unless I beg him and fight with him. I mean if I'm working 45 hourse a week and he is working 10 hours a week... then he needs to clean the house right?? I feel like maybe because I'm not showing yet he feels like I'm not really pregnant and I don't need extra help yet.

[MamaBear0612]

I think you'll get used to it...the thing about us women is that we're strong enough to roll with the punches, much stronger than them I think except for in the physical sense.  I keep reminding myself of that, but it sounds like you've survived a lot already, you're just moving into the unknown and that's always scary.  Hang in there...and put a sign on your bedside table telling him to leave you alone (or else!) when you're asleep. :)

[Socalledchaos119]

Lol!  Well this is my first pregnancy when the dad stayed around and I'm just not use to it.  I love him, but he irks me.  Pregnancy was hard alone and I do feel the pain cause I remember...but I just don't think anyway is easier anymore.  Some may think I'm weird but I'm also nervous about after the baby comes cause I'm so use to being alone and he gets needy.  :/