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For single mommies or soon to be

when friends or anyone asks u bout the baby daddy wat do u say ? I hate havin to tell everryone my situation
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I don't say anything I just say we decided diffrent things
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I dealt with that with my first. I just told them "he is not involved" and left it at that.
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My baby's father plans on being around for his son but we aren't together. The only people I really tell is my family. I have a few close friends that know of him but never met him. Other then that when someone asks I just shrug it off and don't answer. It's no ones business but yours. If you don't want to tell anyone don't feel obligated
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well my family and friends all met my baby daddy so they know why i chose to be a single mom at first it was hard people would tell me oh y did he leave u trying to make me feel.like **** then when i would tell them i kicked him out and rather be single then in abuse they shut up i think single mothers are so strong because that same person who rudely said that is in an abusive relationship and is miserable and when she sees.me being happy providing for my son on my own she just stays quite while being a fulltime student so who says we cant do it all just surround ur self with positive people who love u and all will be great my family is a great support system especially my mom i thank her and love her dearly and when i explain my situation I am proud to say it never be ashamed!!! no one can judge u unless they walked in ur shoes i tell them things didn't work out simple if they ask y and keep it up i tell them hes no good he was abusive and a drug addict and that shuts them up if it wasn't for me getting pregnant with my son i honestly dont think i would have had the courage to never be with him i tried on my own but my son knowing he would see that made me strong because not only am i mom and dad im a survivor of abuse and that's nothing to be ashamed of. your not the first or last single mom so keep ur head up
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I hate when ppl ask "who yo baby daddy?"

I jus say a ***** *** n*gha... Bc thts what he is & when ppl ask about the baby I'm prego w/ now I jus say he's an idiot & I hate him...

Short , simple, & truthful ... Lol harsh I know..
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Tell them it's none of there business.  You shouldn't have to explain your business to them or anyone else. Good luck
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The father of my unborn little man used to beat me so I won't even tell him because I know he would hurt me and the baby, but I know some of his friends and when they asked me I just made up a name and said there from a whole other town lmao, to me it's no ones buisness what's really going on and they don't know what I went through before I could escape from that monster of an ex
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