My friend gave me a wonderful idea for a get together, a gender party! its a bit like a baby shower, only there is no presents involved. Its a great way for both sets of grandparents to meet, and for you and your loved ones to have some time together before things get too crazy. We decided that although we want to know the gender, we want to have it be our little secret for a while, and then when the party comes around, everyone will find out the gender when the cake is cut and the inside of the cake is pink or blue!