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am i wrong?

Okay ladies so now that im pregnant i get more emotional than ever. My husband loves me i know but hardly ever pays attention to me. Specially now that I'm pregnant. I know we go out and he will look at other girls but never me. Last time i tried to talk to him about it i started crying and said im going to get huge and he doesn't understand he told me well you should have never gotten pregnant if you didn't want to get fat. I felt like crap. Im not big (125 lbs) but idk if i shouldn't get emotional over this. Am i making a big deal? I think I'm like this because with my first pregnancy when we talked about being in the delivery room i said i hope you dont pass out he said dont worry ive seen plenty of cows give birth before.
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:0 how dare he call you a cow! I'm sorry you're going through this.. To me, he doesn't seem very supportive of your pregnancies.
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It sounds like he is just very & not too supportive!
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i feel yr pain to a point, im 28 weeks 4 days along and my husband has called me fat once well needless to say he didnt get the happy ending he wanted lol. i was really tiny wen we started dating then got hypothyroidism n its a pin to lose weight or keep yr weight under control and i got bigger and now that im pregnant i no i shouldnt but i kinda eat less cuz i no baby is helping me lose the fat to a point so i feel sexy again, but if he wasnt going to be suportive about u being pregnant and very emotional he should have been honest and told u from the start, and as for comparing u 2 a cow thats not right! i mean u may feel like one cuz of the big belly and want baby out cuz u wanna feel some wat normal again but cows and human births r totaly different! if u need to talk to his mom or dad and have them talk to him mayb. mayb thats all he needs to hear is like his parents telling him to b nicer or more suportive or just keep him mouth shut n eyes focused on u n yr baby!
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