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Good day

First of, let me introduce myself to yall that dont know me:) im 20 years old, live in Texas, this is my first pregnancy (ITS A BOY)! iWas in a relationship with someone who was my bestfriend for years, we decided to start dating, we didnt prevent pregnancy, we felt that if it was meant to be, itll happen. So it did:) long story short, he changed, relationship was lost,he disowned my bby, iMoved out, im better off:) this happened when iWas 2 months pregnant. im happy, aside from the drama his new MINOR gf has caused, iCouldnt be happier knowing Im gonna be a mom. Throughout my highschool years iWas in a relationship, he moved when we were goin on 5 months into the relationship, we had trouble but we stayed together,senior year iCheated.. Worst mistake. We still keep in touch, he hasnt moved on-&it is clear we still love one another. When he found out iWas pregnant, it hurt him alot. But he has came around-&actually wants to be a part of my childs life. Marriage ofcourse, if not soon.. In the future once bby is here-&iMove with him. Him accepting BOTH of us is the best thing ever. iJust dont know what people will think... Do yall think its a bad idea?
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Thank you girls so much:))
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Aww that sounds like a cute story. I think if hes actually proving to you that he wants to be with you and the baby give him another chance everyone deserves to be happy and better of with your baby boy he deserves to have both parents but its all on you tho if you feel like this makes you happy then do it if not dont do it i wish the best with your lil family god bless you
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My boyfriend nearly of2 years now took on my daughter when she was about 6 months old. She doesn't know he isn't her father, and his patents are grandma and grandpa to her. We are now having a baby together, but it all turned out great for us! I hope things go just as well for you dear!
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